Connecticut speed dating events with WeekendDating focus mainly on Stamford and nearby areas in Fairfield County. These nights are organized, friendly, and designed so you meet a lot of singles in a short amount of time without endless swiping.
If you live in Stamford, Norwalk, Bridgeport, or other towns in southwest Connecticut, these events give you a way to meet people closer to home instead of always heading into Manhattan or Long Island.
At a Glance
Where: Stamford and other Fairfield County locations
Format: 8 to 15 mini dates per event
Length: About 90 minutes to 2 hours
Host: Friendly host explains everything
Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours
Quick Answers
Dress code: Smart casual works great
Age groups: Different nights for different age ranges
Proof of age: IDs checked at in person events
Virtual: Some CT events are run on Zoom
Voice Quick Answers
Where can I find CT speed dating?
WeekendDating hosts Connecticut speed dating events mostly in Stamford and nearby towns in Fairfield County.
Do you run events in Stamford?
Yes. Stamford speed dating nights are a core part of our CT schedule and are updated often.
How many singles will I meet?
On a typical night you meet around 8 to 15 people in your age group.
How long does a CT speed dating event last?
Plan for around 90 minutes to 2 hours including check in, mini dates, and any extra mingling.
Do you offer virtual CT events?
Yes. Some Connecticut events are run on Zoom so you can join from home.
Upcoming CT Speed Dating Events
Use the search and listings below to find the next CT and Stamford speed dating nights.
Date
Ages
Location
Title
Upcoming Events
Thu Sep 17
Women:
50-66
Men:
56-70
Other
Speed Dating Westchester
Thu Sep 17 2026
Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-70,Women 50-66 Other
Sat Sep 26
Women:
30s & 40s
Men:
30s & 40s
Connecticut
Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Sat Sep 26 2026
Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Men 30s & 40s,Women 30s & 40s Connecticut
Thu Oct 8
Women:
40-54
Men:
43-57
Connecticut
Speed Dating CT
Thu Oct 8 2026
Speed Dating CT Men 43-57,Women 40-54 Connecticut
Wed Oct 14
Women:
50-66
Men:
56-70
Other
Speed Dating Westchester
Wed Oct 14 2026
Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-70,Women 50-66 Other
Fri Sep 18
Women:
45-58
Men:
48-61
Nassau
Long Island Speed Dating
Fri Sep 18 2026
Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61,Women 45-58 Nassau
Sat Sep 19
Women:
35-49
Men:
38-52
Nassau
Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Sep 19 2026
Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52,Women 35-49 Nassau
Sat Sep 19
Women:
52-66
Men:
56-70
Suffolk
LI Speed Dating
Sat Sep 19 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 56-70,Women 52-66 Suffolk
Thu Sep 24
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Singles Dine With Purpose
Thu Sep 24 2026
Singles Dine With Purpose Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Sat Sep 26
Women:
40-54
Men:
43-55
Nassau
LI Speed Dating
Sat Sep 26 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 43-55,Women 40-54 Nassau
Sat Sep 26
Women:
56-70
Men:
58-78
Nassau
LI Speed Dating
Sat Sep 26 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 58-78,Women 56-70 Nassau
Sun Sep 27
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Sun Sep 27 2026
Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Sun Sep 27
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Pickleball Observe
Sun Sep 27 2026
Pickleball Observe Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Thu Oct 1
Women:
Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Men:
Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Suffolk
Elevated Singles Mixer
Thu Oct 1 2026
Elevated Singles Mixer Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s Suffolk
Fri Oct 2
Women:
50-63
Men:
53-65
Suffolk
LI Speed Dating
Fri Oct 2 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 53-65,Women 50-63 Suffolk
Sat Oct 3
Women:
30s & 40s
Men:
30s & 40s
Suffolk
Speed Dating Long Island
Sat Oct 3 2026
Speed Dating Long Island Men 30s & 40s,Women 30s & 40s Suffolk
Sat Oct 10
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Long Island Comedy
Sat Oct 10 2026
Long Island Comedy Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Sat Oct 10
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Long Island Comedy
Sat Oct 10 2026
Long Island Comedy Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Wed Oct 14
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
Wed Oct 14 2026
Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Sat Oct 17
Women:
35-49
Men:
38-52
Nassau
Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Oct 17 2026
Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52,Women 35-49 Nassau
Sun Oct 18
Women:
52-66
Men:
56-70
Queens
LI Speed Dating
Sun Oct 18 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 56-70,Women 52-66 Queens
Sat Oct 24
Women:
45-58
Men:
48-61
Nassau
Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Oct 24 2026
Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61,Women 45-58 Nassau
Sun Oct 25
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Sun Oct 25 2026
Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Sun Oct 25
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Nassau
Pickleball Observe
Sun Oct 25 2026
Pickleball Observe Men - All,Women - All Nassau
Fri Oct 30
Women:
40-54
Men:
43-55
Nassau
LI Speed Dating
Fri Oct 30 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 43-55,Women 40-54 Nassau
Sat Oct 31
Women:
56-70
Men:
58-78
Nassau
LI Speed Dating
Sat Oct 31 2026
LI Speed Dating Men 58-78,Women 56-70 Nassau
Mon Dec 14
Women:
- All
Men:
- All
Other
4 Night Caribbean Getaway
Mon Dec 14 2026
4 Night Caribbean Getaway Men - All,Women - All Other
Tue Sep 22
Women:
37-54
Men:
42-57
Online
Online Speed Dating
Tue Sep 22 2026
Online Speed Dating Men 42-57,Women 37-54 Online
Tue Oct 6
Women:
30s & 40s
Men:
30s & 40s
Online
Online Speed Dating
Tue Oct 6 2026
Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s,Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Oct 13
Women:
30s & 40s
Men:
30s & 40
Online
Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Tue Oct 13 2026
Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40,Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Oct 20
Women:
37-54
Men:
42-57
Online
Online Speed Dating
Tue Oct 20 2026
Online Speed Dating Men 42-57,Women 37-54 Online
Tue Nov 10
Women:
27-43
Men:
27-43
Online
Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Tue Nov 10 2026
Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 27-43,Women 27-43 Online
People Also Ask About CT Speed Dating
How much does CT speed dating cost?
Pricing varies by venue and age group. Check the event list above for current prices.
Do I need to live in Connecticut to attend?
No. Many people come from New York and New Jersey, but CT locals appreciate having events closer to home.
What should I wear to a Stamford speed dating night?
Smart casual is ideal. Look neat, relaxed, and like you put in a little effort.
Can I come alone?
Yes. Most guests attend solo. The host explains the process and helps make everyone feel comfortable.
Are the events age grouped?
Yes. Each night is set for a specific age range so you meet people close to your own age.
About Club Getaway In Connecticut
In the past, WeekendDating helped promote group trips to Club Getaway in Connecticut. Club Getaway is a camp style resort set on hundreds of acres overlooking a lake in the Berkshires near Kent, Connecticut, about 90 minutes from New York City by car or bus.
These weekends included sports, parties, social activities, and a big mix of singles from New York and Connecticut. Many guests traveled up on the Club Getaway bus from Manhattan while others drove on their own.
Some of the older information and pricing details about Club Getaway that appeared on this site may now be out of date. If you have questions about past Club Getaway trips that were promoted through WeekendDating, you can call Jay at 718-757-6933.
The information below on this page regarding Club Getaway is outdated. Any questions, call Jay at 718-757-6933.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do CT speed dating events really work?
Yes. WeekendDating events across NY and CT have led to many long term relationships and marriages over the years.
Can I switch to a different CT night if my plans change?
Policies vary by event. Contact Jay in advance if you need to move to a different night.
Are there food or drink minimums?
Some venues may have a one or two item minimum. Check the event description for details.
Who should I contact with questions?
Call or text Jay at 718-757-6933 with any CT speed dating questions, or to ask which event is the best fit for you.
A Quick Note From Jay
Connecticut has always surprised me with how strong the turnout is. Stamford events especially bring out a great group of people who want something real without having to travel into the city. I have met so many amazing CT singles over the years. One of my favorite success stories (Lance and Teresa) met at Northern Lights in the Stamford Marriott.
If you are thinking about trying a CT event, jump in. They are relaxed, fun, and honestly a nice break from the dating apps. Most people end the night smiling and glad they came.
Any questions or if you want help picking an event, just reach out.
