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Our Long Island speed dating events, NYC singles events, and Stamford Connecticut gatherings are designed to make meeting new people easy and comfortable.
Whether you are looking for dating, new friends, or fun social experiences, our events follow a simple, structured format.
At a Glance
- Mini dates: Up to 15 per event
- Length: About 4 to 5 minutes each
- Matches: Sent the next morning
- Locations: NYC, Long Island, Westchester, Stamford CT
- Who attends: Singles looking for something real
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Quick Answers
- Dress code: Smart casual works great
- Age groups: Listed on each event
- Arrival: Check in 10 to 15 minutes early
- Food/drinks: Available for purchase
- ID check: Yes, required to keep age groups accurate
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Voice Quick Answers
How do WeekendDating speed dating events work?
You meet up to 15 people in a series of mini dates. Each round is simple, guided, and only a few minutes long.
How long is each date?
Each mini date lasts about 4 to 5 minutes.
Which areas do you host events?
We run events across NYC, Long Island, Westchester, and Connecticut.
When do I get my matches?
Your matches are emailed the next morning, including mutual and one way matches.
Can introverts do speed dating?
Yes. The structure removes pressure and makes conversations easy.
Activity and Cultural Events
Not every event is about dating. We also run concerts, comedy shows, baseball games, fitness activities, scavenger hunts, museum outings, Broadway shows, and more. These events focus on shared interests and making new friends without age or gender balancing requirements.
How Speed Dating Works
You will have up to 15 mini speed dates, each lasting about 4 to 5 minutes. After each date you mark yes or no on your scorecard depending on whether you would like to connect afterward.
At the end of the event, you submit your scorecard. The next morning you receive an email with your matches, including mutual matches and one way matches (they picked you even if you did not pick them). Historically, 70 to 80 percent of attendees leave with at least one match.
As one participant said: I could have stared at a guy all night in a bar and never spoken to him. This forces everyone to be social.
Girls Night Out
This event is for women looking to make new friends or activity partners. It is relaxed, social, and a great way to meet like minded people. (CNN video available — may take a moment to load.)
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
21
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
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Thu
Aug
27
2026
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50s |
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| Men: | 50s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
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Thu
Aug
27
2026
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
Men 50s,
Women 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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40s+ Fun night
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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40s+ Fun night
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Sep
1
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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| Men: | 38-55 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Sep
17
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
25
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Queens
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
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Fri
Sep
25
2026
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
Men - All,
Women - All
Queens
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
22
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Aug
23
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Aug
23
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles Walk- Plainview/Woodbury area
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Sun
Aug
30
2026
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Singles Walk- Plainview/Woodbury area
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
5
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
18
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
19
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
19
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Suffolk
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Sep
27
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Sep
27
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Suffolk
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
Oct
1
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Suffolk
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| Women: | 35-45 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
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Tue
Dec
1
2026
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Men N/A,
Women 35-45
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Wed
Aug
19
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Sep
10
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 50-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Sep
17
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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People Also Ask About How Speed Dating Works
Do I need to come with someone?
Most attendees come solo. It is normal and the host helps everyone feel welcome.
Do men or women rotate?
Men usually rotate, but we sometimes switch it depending on the venue.
What if I am shy?
Many shy people attend. The format actually helps take away the awkwardness.
Can I switch age groups?
Contact Jay if you are close. Otherwise we keep the groups accurate for fairness.
Frequently Asked Questions
How soon are matches processed?
You get them the next morning.
What if I do not meet anyone?
That happens sometimes. The goal is showing up and trying.
Do people meet long term partners?
Yes. Many couples and marriages have come from these events.
Is this better than online dating?
Face to face usually beats swiping. Real conversations and real energy.
From Jay
Since 2003 I have watched thousands of people meet through these events. Some formed friendships, some found relationships, and plenty have built families. The format works because it removes pressure and lets people relax and be themselves.
If you want help choosing the right event, you can always reach out at (516) 908-9638 or (718) 757-6933.
See you soon,
Jay
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