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WeekendDating runs relaxed, well-organized speed dating NYC events in Manhattan
and have frequently been called the best in the business. In about 90 minutes you will meet 8 to 15 people in your age group, talk for about
four to five minutes each, and let our host know at the end of the
event who you are interested in. It is simple, low pressure, and we email your matches within
12-24 hours. 88 married couples have resulted from our events.
You could be next!
Most events are at Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge and other easy-to-reach NYC spots.
Venues are typically an easy walk from the 1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W,
Grand Central, LIRR and PATH trains at 34th Street.
At-a-Glance
Independent research backs the shift toward curated, in person connections: Pew Research: Key findings about online dating and PNAS (Stanford): How couples meet (see also the Stanford HCMST data portal).
- Where: Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge + select
NYC venues
- Format: 8-15 mini-dates, about 4-5 minutes each
- Who: Age-grouped events; like-minded singles
- Host: Friendly host guides the night
- Matches: Emailed within 24 hours
- Virtual: Zoom events also available
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Quick Answers
- What to wear? Smart casual - neat jeans, button-down, nice top or dress.
- How many people will I meet? Typically 8-15 per event.
- Do I get to talk to everyone? Yes, you
meet all of the participants of the opposite gender- low pressure; your comfort comes first.
- How are matches delivered? By email within
12-24 hours after you submit choices. One way matches
also delivered.
- Proof of age? Checked at check-in so age groups stay accurate.
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Voice Quick Answers
Where can I find speed dating in NYC this weekend?
Right here. Check the schedule above for upcoming NYC events near Herald Square and Penn Station, updated weekly.
Is it near me? like in
Manhattan and easy to get to?
Yes. Most NYC events are an easy walk from Penn Station,
Grand Central, and major subway lines (1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, PATH).
How long does a speed dating event last?
Plan for about 90 minutes to 2 hours including check-in, mini-dates, and mingling.
What should I wear?
Smart casual works great: neat jeans, button-down, nice top or dress.
How many people will I meet?
Typically 8-15 in your age group, with 4-5 minute conversations so you meet everyone.
Do you verify age at the door?
Yes. We check ID so each age group stays accurate.
When do I get my matches?
We email matches within 12-24 hours. One-way matches are included.
I am shy: will someone guide me?
Absolutely. A friendly host explains everything, keeps the night moving, and can make introductions.
Do you run events for 40s and 50s?
Yes: check the schedule for 40s and 50s nights, plus other age ranges.
How do I get there by subway or LIRR?
Use the MTA Trip Planner or walk from Penn
Station/Grand Central: most venues are a few minutes away.
Key Questions About NYC Speed Dating
What is speed dating?
Speed dating is an organized social event where singles meet through a series of short conversations. In one night, you meet many potential matches face-to-face in just minutes each.
- 8-15 quick mini-dates
- 4-5 minutes per conversation
- Matches emailed within 24 hours
How does a NYC speed dating event work?
- Arrive 15 to 30 minutes early and check in.
- Meet 8 to 15 singles in your age group through mini-dates.
- Mark your choices on a scorecard.
- Matches are emailed to you within 12 to 24 hours.
How long does it last?
Events usually last about 90 minutes to 2 hours, including check-in, rotations, and mingling.
Why try speed dating in NYC?
- Meet many singles in one night.
- Avoid the endless swiping of apps.
- Age groups verified at the door for accuracy.
People Also Ask About NYC Speed Dating
How much does speed dating cost in NYC?
Pricing varies by event and venue, and we occasionally run early-bird or special promotions. Check the schedule above for current prices.
Do I need to bring anything?
Please bring a government-issued ID for age verification. We provide scorecards and everything else you need.
What should I talk about on a speed date?
- What is your go-to weekend plan?
- What is a hobby you’d love to share with someone?
- Best hidden gem in NYC that you have found recently?
Is speed dating worth it in NYC?
If you want to meet many people face-to-face in one night without endless swiping, speed dating is a strong bet. You
will meet 8
to 15 people and receive your matches by email within 12-24 hours.
What age groups do you offer?
We host a variety of nights across age ranges, including 30s, 40s, and 50s. See the schedule for upcoming dates in your group.
Do most people come alone?
Yes: most attendees arrive solo. Our friendly host explains everything and can make introductions so you feel comfortable right away.
How should I prepare for speed dating?
Arrive 15-30 minutes early, wear smart casual, and come with two or three light conversation starters. Be present and have fun.
Do you run LGBTQ+ events?
We periodically run LGBTQ+ mixers. Check the schedule for upcoming dates.
Use the box below to search for NYC singles events only. The schedule to the left has everything.
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| Upcoming Events |
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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Cocktails and Connections
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Sat
Aug
30
2025
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Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | - All |
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Online
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Dating Coach Session for Men
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Tue
Sep
2
2025
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Dating Coach Session for Men
Men - All,
Women N/A
Online
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | - All |
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Online
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Jewish Dating Coach Session for Men
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Tue
Sep
2
2025
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Jewish Dating Coach Session for Men
Men - All,
Women N/A
Online
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
5
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-45 |
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| Men: | 25-45 |
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Manhattan
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Jewish (JSC) Rooftop & Schmooze
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Wed
Sep
10
2025
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Jewish (JSC) Rooftop & Schmooze
Men 25-45,
Women 25-45
Manhattan
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| Women: | 20s & 30s |
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| Men: | 20s & 30s |
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Manhattan
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Afrodesiac Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
12
2025
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Afrodesiac Speed Dating
Men 20s & 30s,
Women 20s & 30s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Sep
13
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Sep
13
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-45 |
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| Men: | 25-45 |
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Manhattan
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Jewish (JSC) Picnic @ Central Park
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Sun
Sep
14
2025
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Jewish (JSC) Picnic @ Central Park
Men 25-45,
Women 25-45
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Sep
18
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
19
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING)
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Fri
Sep
19
2025
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Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING)
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-60 |
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| Men: | 45-60 |
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Manhattan
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Gen X Speed Dating
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Tue
Sep
23
2025
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Gen X Speed Dating
Men 45-60,
Women 45-60
Manhattan
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| Women: | 48-63 |
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| Men: | 54-69 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
3
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 54-69,
Women 48-63
Manhattan
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| Women: | 20s, 30s, 40s |
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| Men: | 20s, 30s, 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Single Mingle
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Sat
Oct
4
2025
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Jewish Single Mingle
Men 20s, 30s, 40s,
Women 20s, 30s, 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Oct
11
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Oct
11
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Oct
16
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
17
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-40 |
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| Men: | 25-40 |
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Manhattan
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Teacher Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
7
2025
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Teacher Speed Dating
Men 25-40,
Women 25-40
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Sep
9
2025
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Wed
Sep
10
2025
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Sep
16
2025
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Aug
30
2025
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Sep
6
2025
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
12
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
13
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Ax Throwing on Long Island
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Sun
Sep
14
2025
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Ax Throwing on Long Island
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
20
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Suffolk
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
26
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
26
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 25-49 |
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| Men: | 25-49 |
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Nassau
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Preparty Mingle ages 25-49
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Sat
Sep
27
2025
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Preparty Mingle ages 25-49
Men 25-49,
Women 25-49
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Single MINGLE All ages
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Sat
Sep
27
2025
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Long Island Single MINGLE All ages
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball hangout Observe
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Sun
Sep
28
2025
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Pickleball hangout Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
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Sun
Sep
28
2025
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Suffolk
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Oct
4
2025
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Suffolk
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Brooklyn
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Gay Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
10
2025
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Gay Speed Dating
Men 25+,
Women N/A
Brooklyn
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
10
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
11
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
18
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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|
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
24
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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|
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
25
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Photo Services- Look Better
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Mon
Dec
1
2025
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Photo Services- Look Better
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
26
2026
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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|
|
|
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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|
Connecticut
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|
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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|
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Sat
Aug
30
2025
|
Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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|
|
|
|
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
|
|
Manhattan
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|
|
Cocktails and Connections
|
|
|
|
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Sat
Aug
30
2025
|
Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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|
|
|
|
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | - All |
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|
Online
|
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Dating Coach Session for Men
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|
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Tue
Sep
2
2025
|
Dating Coach Session for Men
Men - All,
Women N/A
Online
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | - All |
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Online
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Jewish Dating Coach Session for Men
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Tue
Sep
2
2025
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Jewish Dating Coach Session for Men
Men - All,
Women N/A
Online
|
|
|
|
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| Women: | 25-45 |
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| Men: | 25-45 |
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Manhattan
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Jewish (JSC) Rooftop & Schmooze
|
|
|
|
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Wed
Sep
10
2025
|
Jewish (JSC) Rooftop & Schmooze
Men 25-45,
Women 25-45
Manhattan
|
|
|
|
|
|
| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
|
|
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Speed Dating Westchester- Fundraiser
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|
|
|
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Thu
Sep
11
2025
|
Speed Dating Westchester- Fundraiser
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
|
|
|
|
|
|
| Women: | 30s & 40s |
|
| Men: | 30s & 40s |
|
|
Manhattan
|
|
|
Speed Dating NYC
|
|
|
|
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Sat
Sep
13
2025
|
Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
|
|
|
|
|
|
| Women: | 25-45 |
|
| Men: | 25-45 |
|
|
Manhattan
|
|
|
Jewish (JSC) Picnic @ Central Park
|
|
|
|
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Sun
Sep
14
2025
|
Jewish (JSC) Picnic @ Central Park
Men 25-45,
Women 25-45
Manhattan
|
|
|
|
|
|
| Women: | 50-65 |
|
| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
|
|
|
Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Sep
18
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
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Nassau
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Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING)
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2025
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Long Island -Make New Friends (Speed FRIENDING)
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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2025
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
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Speed Dating NYC
If you are new to the singles scene, here is the idea: enjoy a fun night out, meet everyone in the room, and avoid awkward starts or exits. Many events borrow the speed-dating format and add an activity twist to keep it easy and social.
The best speed dating NYC and singles events are
well structured so you get to meet everyone through smooth, planned rotations. Questions or concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933
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We ran our first New York City singles event on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to Connecticut, Long Island, and more. Over 88 married couples later, we are still going strong.
Why we are called WeekendDating
I started WeekendDating because most events back then were midweek and ended late. I wanted something that fit real life. We still run the majority of events on weekends, with an occasional midweek option.
Why does speed dating in NYC work?
It removes the hard part. No pressure getting into conversations, and no pressure getting out of them. You chat for a few minutes, mark your scorecard, and move to the next person. Simple and respectful.
Do matches happen? Absolutely. There is some luck in who shows up on your night, but we have seen at least 88 marriages, lots of great relationships, and more than a few baby photos.
Can you really get to know someone in 5 minutes?
You do not need five hours to feel a spark. Five minutes is plenty to decide whether you want a real first date. If you are on the fence, say yes and see where it goes.
What goes on at the speed dating NYC event?
Arrive 15 to 30 minutes early to settle in. Check in with your host and grab your welcome packet. We do check proof of age to keep groups accurate. Once we begin, you will have a series of short conversations. Take a few notes to remember names. After each round, the guys shift one seat and we keep it moving.
How many people will I meet?
Minimum 8, usually up to about 15 or more. We adjust the timing based on the group size so the night flows.
How do I tell you who I liked?
For in-person events, hand in your scorecard at the end. Within 12-24 hours, we email your matches. You will see mutual matches and one-way matches (they picked you, even if you did not pick them).
Frequently Asked Questions (Asked by Singles Like You)
Do the events really work?
YES. We know of at least 88
married couples, countless relationships and 16 kids who have come
from the speed dating events.
Check out our
testimonials page and see for yourself.
What should I wear to a NYC speed dating event?
Smart casual works great: neat jeans, a button-down, or a nice top or dress.
How soon do I get my matches?
We email them within 12-24 hours after you submit your choices.
One way matches are also provided.
How many people will I meet?
Typically 8 to 15, depending on the night.
Is there a host?
Yes. A friendly host explains everything and keeps the night moving.
About Jay
Hi, I am Jay. I started WeekendDating in 2003 to make meeting people easier and more respectful. If you have questions, call or text me at 718-757-6933. I am happy to help you pick the right event.
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