Speed Dating NYC - Meet Up to 15 Singles in One Night

Speed Dating NYC is the best way to meet new singles in Manhattan. In about 90 minutes, you'll enjoy 8-15 mini-dates, each lasting about 5 minutes. No awkward approaches or struggling on how to get into or out of conversations, just fun, relaxed introductions in a comfortable setting.

• Event Format: 5-minute rotations with up to 15 singles
• Location: Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge + other NYC venues
• Since 2003: Over 88 married couples and counting
• Virtual Options: Zoom events available

Our WeekendDating.com events make meeting someone new easy, exciting, and fun. We host singles events in NYC and the surrounding tri-state area, plus occasional virtual events.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why Choose WeekendDating?

Founded in 2003 by Jay, WeekendDating was created to offer singles a better way to meet people-on the weekends, not during hectic weekdays. We believe dating should be easy, fun, and pressure free.

Event Highlights

Here is what makes our NYC speed dating events stand out:

• No awkward entrances to/from conversations.  Everyone is here for the same reason.
• Carefully planned rotations ensure you meet everyone
• Experienced hosts guide the experience smoothly
• Virtual events bring the magic of dating to your living room

How to Join an Event

1. Choose your preferred date & location from the event list
2. Arrive 15-30 minutes early for check-in and mingling
3. Enjoy 4-5-minute mini-dates with up to 15 people
4. Submit your matches and get results the next day, usually the same night.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I wear to a NYC speed dating event?

Dress to impress, but stay comfortable. Most people go with smart casual neat jeans, button-downs, or a nice top or dress. You never get a second chance to make a first impression!

How soon do I get my matches after the event?

We will ll email your matches within 24 hours. Just make sure you mark your choices before the deadline after the event.

How many people will I meet?

You'll meet approximately 10 to 15 singles in your age group, each for about 5 minutes. It's fast-paced and fun!

Do I have to talk to everyone?

Nope! While most attendees talk to everyone, you're not required to interact with anyone you're not comfortable with. We promote a relaxed, no-pressure vibe.

Is there a host at the event?

Yes, every event has a friendly host to explain everything and guide you through the evening. You will be in good hands!

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FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Fri Oct 17 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Oct 17 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Sat Oct 18 Women:   21+ Men:   21+ Manhattan Cocktails and Connections Sat Oct 18 2025 Cocktails and Connections Men 21+, Women 21+ Manhattan Thu Oct 23 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Oct 23 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan Halloween Singles Soirée Fri Oct 31 2025 Halloween Singles Soirée Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan Boo Bash NYC Fri Oct 31 2025 Boo Bash NYC Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Fri Nov 7 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Nov 7 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Fri Nov 7 Women:   25-40 Men:   25-40 Manhattan Teacher Speed Dating Fri Nov 7 2025 Teacher Speed Dating Men 25-40, Women 25-40 Manhattan Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Nov 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Nov 8 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri Nov 21 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Nov 21 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Tue Nov 4 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Speed Dating Tue Nov 4 2025 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Wed Nov 5 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Wed Nov 5 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Fri Oct 17 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau 39 + Ready to Mingle Halloween Bash Fri Oct 17 2025 39 + Ready to Mingle Halloween Bash Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Oct 18 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Oct 18 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Sun Oct 19 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Haunted House Long Island/ Mingle Sun Oct 19 2025 Haunted House Long Island/ Mingle Men - All, Women - All Nassau Fri Oct 24 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Oct 24 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sat Oct 25 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Suffolk LI Speed Dating Sat Oct 25 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Suffolk Sun Oct 26 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Pickleball Observe Sun Oct 26 2025 Pickleball Observe Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun Oct 26 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Sun Oct 26 2025 Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Halloween Dance Party Fri Oct 31 2025 Halloween Dance Party Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 1 Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43 Nassau Speed Dating Long Island Sat Nov 1 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau Sun Nov 2 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Dinner & a movie- Back to The Future! Sun Nov 2 2025 Dinner & a movie- Back to The Future! Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 8 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating Sat Nov 8 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Suffolk Fri Nov 14 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Fri Nov 14 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Nassau Sat Nov 15 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Nov 15 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Sun Nov 16 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping Sun Nov 16 2025 Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 22 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Nassau LI Speed Dating Sat Nov 22 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau Sun Nov 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Sun Nov 23 2025 Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sun Nov 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball hangout Observe Sun Nov 23 2025 Pickleball hangout Observe Men - All, Women - All Nassau Wed Nov 26 Women:   20s & 30s Men:   20s & 30s Manhattan Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Wed Nov 26 2025 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Men 20s & 30s, Women 20s & 30s Manhattan Wed Nov 26 Women:    - All Men:   all Manhattan Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages Wed Nov 26 2025 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages Men all , Women - All Manhattan Fri Nov 28 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Nov 28 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sun Nov 30 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Nassau Speed Dating Long Island Sun Nov 30 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Nassau Mon Dec 1 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Photo Services- Look Better Mon Dec 1 2025 Photo Services- Look Better Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sun Apr 26 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Sun Apr 26 2026 Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun Jul 12 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Sun Jul 12 2026 Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sat Oct 18 Women:   21+ Men:   21+ Manhattan Cocktails and Connections Sat Oct 18 2025 Cocktails and Connections Men 21+, Women 21+ Manhattan Wed Oct 22 Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69 Other Speed Dating Westchester Wed Oct 22 2025 Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Other Sat Nov 1 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Connecticut Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Sat Nov 1 2025 Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Connecticut Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Nov 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Thu Nov 13 Women:   40-54 Men:   43-57 Other Speed Dating Westchester Thu Nov 13 2025 Speed Dating Westchester Men 43-57, Women 40-54 Other