Speed Dating NYC - Meet Up to 15 Singles in One Night

Speed Dating NYC is the best way to meet new singles in Manhattan. In about 90 minutes, you'll enjoy 8-15 mini-dates, each lasting about 5 minutes. No awkward approaches or struggling on how to get into or out of conversations, just fun, relaxed introductions in a comfortable setting.

• Event Format: 5-minute rotations with up to 15 singles
• Location: Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge + other NYC venues
• Since 2003: Over 88 married couples and counting
• Virtual Options: Zoom events available

Our WeekendDating.com events make meeting someone new easy, exciting, and fun. We host singles events in NYC and the surrounding tri-state area, plus occasional virtual events.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why Choose WeekendDating?

Founded in 2003 by Jay, WeekendDating was created to offer singles a better way to meet people-on the weekends, not during hectic weekdays. We believe dating should be easy, fun, and pressure free.

Event Highlights

Here is what makes our NYC speed dating events stand out:

• No awkward entrances to/from conversations.  Everyone is here for the same reason.
• Carefully planned rotations ensure you meet everyone
• Experienced hosts guide the experience smoothly
• Virtual events bring the magic of dating to your living room

How to Join an Event

1. Choose your preferred date & location from the event list
2. Arrive 15-30 minutes early for check-in and mingling
3. Enjoy 4-5-minute mini-dates with up to 15 people
4. Submit your matches and get results the next day, usually the same night.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I wear to a NYC speed dating event?

Dress to impress, but stay comfortable. Most people go with smart casual neat jeans, button-downs, or a nice top or dress. You never get a second chance to make a first impression!

How soon do I get my matches after the event?

We will ll email your matches within 24 hours. Just make sure you mark your choices before the deadline after the event.

How many people will I meet?

You'll meet approximately 10 to 15 singles in your age group, each for about 5 minutes. It's fast-paced and fun!

Do I have to talk to everyone?

Nope! While most attendees talk to everyone, you're not required to interact with anyone you're not comfortable with. We promote a relaxed, no-pressure vibe.

Is there a host at the event?

Yes, every event has a friendly host to explain everything and guide you through the evening. You will be in good hands!

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