NYC Speed Dating (Manhattan and surrounding areas)

WeekendDating runs relaxed, well-organized speed dating NYC events in Manhattan and have frequently been called the best in the business. In about 90 minutes you will meet 8 to 15 people in your age group, talk for about four to five minutes each, and let our host know at the end of the event who you are interested in. It is simple, low pressure, and we email your matches within 12-24 hours.  88 married couples have resulted from our events.  You could be next!

Most events are at Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge and other easy-to-reach NYC spots. Venues are typically an easy walk  from the 1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, Grand Central, LIRR and PATH trains at 34th Street.

Use the box below to search for NYC singles events only. The schedule to the left has everything.

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Speed Dating NYC

If you are new to the singles scene, here is the idea: enjoy a fun night out, meet everyone in the room, and avoid awkward starts or exits. Many events borrow the speed-dating format and add an activity twist to keep it easy and social.

The best speed dating NYC and singles events are well structured so you get to meet everyone through smooth, planned rotations. Questions or concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 .

We ran our first New York City singles event on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to Connecticut, Long Island, and more. Over 88 married couples later, we are still going strong.

Why we are called WeekendDating

I started WeekendDating because most events back then were midweek and ended late. I wanted something that fit real life. We still run the majority of events on weekends, with an occasional midweek option.

Why speed dating in NYC works

It removes the hard part. No pressure getting into conversations, and no pressure getting out of them. You chat for a few minutes, mark your scorecard, and move to the next person. Simple and respectful.

Do matches happen? Absolutely. There is some luck in who shows up on your night, but we have seen at least 88 marriages, lots of great relationships, and more than a few baby photos.

Can you really get to know someone in 5 minutes?

You do not need five hours to feel a spark. Five minutes is plenty to decide whether you want a real first date. If you are on the fence, say yes and see where it goes.

What goes on at the speed dating NYC event?

Arrive 15 to 30 minutes early to settle in. Check in with your host and grab your welcome packet. We do check proof of age to keep groups accurate. Once we begin, you will have a series of short conversations. Take a few notes to remember names. After each round, the guys shift one seat and we keep it moving.

How many people will I meet?

Minimum 8, usually up to about 15 or more. We adjust the timing based on the group size so the night flows.

How do I tell you who I liked?

For in-person events, hand in your scorecard at the end. Within 12-24 hours, we email your matches. You will see mutual matches and one-way matches (they picked you, even if you did not pick them).

Frequently Asked Questions

About Jay

Hi, I am Jay. I started WeekendDating in 2003 to make meeting people easier and more respectful. If you have questions, call or text me at 718-757-6933. I am happy to help you pick the right event.