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NYC Speed Dating Events
Meet NYC singles at fun, low pressure speed dating events across Manhattan. Instead of swiping on apps, you get real conversations with real people in Midtown, near Bryant Park, and other easy to reach spots.
Since 2003, WeekendDating.com has helped thousands of singles connect in person. Many couples have gone on to relationships, engagements, and marriages after meeting at these NYC events.
View Upcoming NYC Events
Most NYC speed dating events take place near Bryant Park, Penn Station, and other central Manhattan locations. Venues are chosen to be convenient by subway and train so you can get there after work and still be home at a reasonable time.
You will meet a series of singles in your age group for short mini dates. There is a friendly host on site to explain how it works, keep things moving, and help everyone feel comfortable.
At a Glance
- Where: Manhattan venues near Bryant Park and Grand Central
- Format: 8 to 15 mini dates in one night
- Timing: Most events start around 7:00 or 7:30 PM
- Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours
- Hosts: Friendly, organized, and on site the whole night
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Quick Answers
- Dress code: Smart casual works best
- Age groups: Separate events for 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond
- Drinks: Available for purchase at the bar
- Arrival: Plan to check in 10 to 15 minutes early
- ID check: Proof of age required at most NYC events
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Voice Quick Answers
Where are NYC speed dating events held?
Most events are in Manhattan near Bryant Park, Midtown, and other easy to reach locations by subway, train, or bus.
How long does a NYC speed dating event last?
Plan for about 90 minutes to 2 hours depending on the size of the group and the age range.
How many people will I meet in one night?
Typically you will meet between 8 and 15 singles in your age group, sometimes more for larger events.
Are these events only for Manhattan singles?
No. Many people come in from Queens, Brooklyn, the Bronx, Long Island, and New Jersey because the venues are close to trains and transit.
Do you really send matches within 24 hours?
Yes. After the event you enter your selections online and matches are usually sent within 12 to 24 hours, including one way matches.
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
21
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30-39 |
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| Men: | 30-39 |
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Manhattan
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30s Something speed dating NYC
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Fri
Nov
21
2025
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30s Something speed dating NYC
Men 30-39,
Women 30-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | all |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages
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Wed
Nov
26
2025
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages
Men all ,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 48-63 |
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| Men: | 54-69 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Dec
5
2025
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 54-69,
Women 48-63
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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Gay Speed Dating
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Tue
Dec
9
2025
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Gay Speed Dating
Men 25+,
Women N/A
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Dec
11
2025
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25+ |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
Men 25+,
Women 25+
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending
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Fri
Nov
21
2025
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Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
22
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
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Sun
Nov
23
2025
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball hangout Observe
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Sun
Nov
23
2025
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Pickleball hangout Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-45 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
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Wed
Nov
26
2025
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Men N/A,
Women 35-45
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
28
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Nov
29
2025
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Nov
29
2025
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Photo Services- Look Better
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Mon
Dec
1
2025
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Photo Services- Look Better
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
13
2025
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
26
2026
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Dec
2
2025
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Wed
Dec
3
2025
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Dec
9
2025
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT
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Thu
Nov
20
2025
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Speed Dating CT
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Dec
6
2025
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester-
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Thu
Dec
11
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester-
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Dec
13
2025
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
Dec
27
2025
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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People Also Ask About NYC Speed Dating
How much do NYC speed dating events cost?
Prices vary by venue and night. Check the event listings above for the exact price for each date and age group.
What should I wear to NYC speed dating?
Smart casual is perfect. Think neat jeans or pants with a nice top, or whatever makes you feel confident and put together.
Can I come by myself?
Yes. Most people attend solo. The host explains everything at the beginning and helps break the ice so you never feel out of place.
What if I am nervous or out of practice?
That is normal. The structure makes it easier because you only talk for a few minutes at a time and you always have a new person to meet.
Do you offer NYC singles events that are not speed dating?
Yes. In addition to classic speed dating, there are singles mixers, trivia nights, and other themed events listed on the main events calendar.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do NYC speed dating events really lead to relationships?
Yes. Over the years, many couples who met at these Manhattan events have gone on to long term relationships, engagements, and marriages.
Are there different NYC events for different ages?
Yes. Events are grouped by age ranges, such as 20s and 30s, 30s and 40s, or 40s and 50s, so you meet people who are close to your stage of life.
Is there a drink or item minimum at the venues?
Some venues have a one or two item minimum. The event listing will show the details for that specific night so there are no surprises.
Can I switch to a different NYC age group?
If you are close to the cutoff and have questions, contact Jay before the event. In some cases it may be possible to move to the most suitable group.
From Jay, Your Host
I started WeekendDating.com back in 2003 because I wanted singles to have a real way to meet each other without all the pressure and frustration that comes with dating apps. Over the years I have seen friendships, relationships, and more than 80 marriages happen from these events.
If you ever have questions about which event is right for you, or if you are feeling a little unsure about attending, just reach out. I am always happy to help guide you so you get the best experience possible.
Hope to see you at an event soon.
Jay R.
Founder, WeekendDating.com
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