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It's not just Speed Dating in NYC
anymore!
Our Speed Dating NYC singles events take place at Bryant Park Lounge in Manhattan and at other singles venues throughout the Big Apple.. Our NYC dating events have resulted in over 85 married couples so far. We also do several virtual zoom speed dating NYC events which are a super convenient way to meet new people from the comfort of your home.
Use the box below to search for NYC SINGLES EVENTS Only. The schedule to the left has everything.
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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Cocktails and Connections
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Sat
Jun
20
2026
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Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jun
26
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25+ |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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Gay Speed Dating NYC
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Fri
Jun
26
2026
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Gay Speed Dating NYC
Men 25+,
Women 25+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jul
10
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Jul
11
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Jul
11
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jul
24
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Sat
Aug
1
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | 30-45 |
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| Men: | 30-45 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Aug
8
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30-45,
Women 30-45
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Aug
13
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-41 |
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| Men: | 25-41 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
14
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-41,
Women 25-41
Online
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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| Men: | 38-55 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Manhattan
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jun
23
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jul
7
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Jul
14
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
20
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Suffolk
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
27
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sun
Jun
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Jun
28
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Jun
28
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles Dine With Purpose
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Wed
Jul
1
2026
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Singles Dine With Purpose
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sun
Jul
5
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Suffolk
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| Women: | 30-45 |
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| Men: | 30-45 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Jul
11
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30-45,
Women 30-45
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jul
18
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Nassau
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
Jul
30
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau
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| Women: | 40+ |
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| Men: | 40+ |
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Manhattan
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Cocktails and Connections
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Sat
Jun
20
2026
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Cocktails and Connections
Men 40+,
Women 40+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Jun
27
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Jul
9
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Jul
11
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT
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Thu
Jul
16
2026
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Speed Dating CT
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 25-41 |
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| Men: | 25-41 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
14
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-41,
Women 25-41
Online
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Speed Dating NYC
If you are new to the singles scene, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NYC event. Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating in NYC anymore. Many of the events modify the speed-dating format to an activity.
The best Speed Dating NYC and Singles events NYC events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor. This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations. Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.
We held our first New york city event for singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to Connecticut, Long Island and other areas. Over 85 married couples and we are still going strong!
Why we are called Weekenddating
It was 2003 and I (Jay) was working in corporate america. All of my friends were getting married, had girlfriends and it was not fun being the last single one of the group. A co-worker named Samantha said that she saw this thing on the news called Hurry Date and it would be right up my alley. I went to a few events and they were always held on a Tuesday or Wednesday night. I loved the concept but wouldnt get home until 11:30 PM and had to be up for work at 6 am.
I started looking for events that were held on the weekend, but........... None existed. So I decided to start my own company and hence, Weekenddating was born. Since those days, we occassionally have a midweek event, but the focus continues to be on Weekend events.
Why speed dating in NYC works
How many times have you seen someone you would like to approach but did not? Nobody wants that uncomfortable feeling. The beauty of the speed dating in NYC is that the awkwardness is removed from the equation. No pressure getting into conversations. Even better... No pressure getting out of conversations. That is all done for you.
Ok, full disclosure here.. A lot comes down to some luck, who is there the night you are. However it really does work and I know of at least 85 married couples, 10 or more kids and lots of happy couples.
Can you really get to know someone in 5 minutes?
Is it enough time to know if you will marry this person? Of course not.. However the five minutes is plenty of time to determine if this is someone you might want to get to know more about. If you are not sure after the mini date, they you can always give the person a yes and figure it out later.
What goes on at the speed dating NYC event?
Arrive about 15-30 minutes prior to start time so that you can settle in. Check in with your host to receive your welcome packet (We do check for proof of age to make sure we deliver what is advertised). Once we get started, everyone is paired off into groups of two. You spend approximately five minutues with someone and then jot down a few notes to help you remember who they are. (If you do not take notes, it can get confusing since you are meeting a lot of people). Next, the guys shift over one spot and we start the process again.
How many people will I meet?
The minimum number of dates is 8 and the maximum number of dates will be about 12. It varies each time. We adjust the amount of time per date based on the total number of dates.
How do I let you know who I liked?
For in person events, you will hand in a scorecard to let us know your selections. Within 24 hours, you will receive an email that lets you know who you matched with. Both mutual matches and one way matches (they picked you, but you did not pick them), will be be provided.
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