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View Upcoming Westchester Events
Our Westchester speed dating events take place in and around White Plains, giving you a way to meet local singles without having to commute into Manhattan. Over 80 married couples have come from WeekendDating events, and many of those connections started in Westchester.
Events are typically held at relaxed Westchester venues near Metro North and major parkways, so it is easy to get there whether you are coming from Yonkers, New Rochelle, Tarrytown, or beyond. Some nights are in person, and others are virtual so you can join from home.
If you're south of Westchester our Long Island speed dating events are another option.
At a Glance
- Where: White Plains and nearby Westchester towns
- Format: 8-15 mini dates per event
- Options: In person and virtual events
- Hosts: Friendly guidance all night
- Matches: Emailed within 12-24 hours
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Quick Answers
- Dress code: Smart casual is perfect
- Age groups: Events by specific age ranges
- Proof of age: IDs checked at in person events
- Arrival: Check in 10-15 minutes early
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Voice Quick Answers
Where are Westchester speed dating events held?
Most events are based in White Plains, with some in surrounding Westchester towns.
Can I get there by Metro North?
Yes. Many events are near the White Plains Metro North station or short rides from other stations.
Do you offer virtual Westchester events?
Yes. Some events are hosted on Zoom so you can meet Westchester and nearby singles from home.
How long is a Westchester speed dating event?
Plan for 90 minutes to about 2 hours including check in and mingling.
How many people will I meet?
Typically 8 to 15 people, depending on the night and age group.
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Oct
24
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Nov
12
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Nov
19
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
13
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
3
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
10
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
17
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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| Men: | 38-55 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
24
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Online
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| Women: | 49-66 |
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| Men: | 58-72 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
9
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72,
Women 49-66
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Oct
10
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Oct
10
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-36 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Manhattan
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
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Thu
Oct
15
2026
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
Men N/A,
Women 25-36
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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NYC
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
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Thu
Oct
15
2026
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
Men N/A,
Women N/A
NYC
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Manhattan
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Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
23
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
13
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-64 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Nov
19
2026
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating
Men 48-64,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
20
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Oct
10
2026
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Queens
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Queens Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
16
2026
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Queens Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Queens
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
24
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Oct
25
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Oct
25
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
30
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
31
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Queens
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Queens Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
6
2026
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Queens Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Queens
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Nov
7
2026
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
14
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Nov
20
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Suffolk
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
21
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Nov
22
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Nov
22
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Nov
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Men: | - All |
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Other
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4 Night Caribbean Getaway
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Mon
Dec
14
2026
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4 Night Caribbean Getaway
Men - All,
Women - All
Other
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People Also Ask About Westchester Speed Dating
How much does Westchester speed dating cost?
Pricing varies by location and age group. Check the event list above for current prices.
Do I have to live in Westchester to attend?
No. Many people come from the Bronx, NYC, Long Island, and Connecticut, but events are centered around Westchester.
Stamford is a short drive over the CT border - see our Connecticut speed dating events for an alternative crowd from the Westchester scene.
Is parking available?
Most Westchester venues have nearby parking garages or lots. Check the specific event details for more information.
What should I talk about on a speed date?
- Favorite places to go in Westchester
- Weekend plans or hobbies
- Shows, sports, or travel you enjoy
Is Westchester speed dating worth it?
If you want to meet people in person instead of just swiping, speed dating in Westchester is a strong option, especially if you live nearby.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do these events really work in Westchester?
Yes. WeekendDating events have led to more than 80 marriages overall, plus many serious relationships, including couples who met at Westchester events.
Are events strictly age grouped?
Yes. Events are created by age range so you meet people close to your age.
Can I bring a friend?
Yes, many people come with a friend, but coming alone is very common and the host makes everyone feel welcome.
What if I am nervous?
That is normal. The host explains the process, keeps the rounds moving, and helps break the ice so it feels easier once you get started.
A Note From Jay
Westchester has been one of the most loyal and consistent groups I have run since about 2010 (7 years after i started the company) The people here are warm, grounded, and genuinely looking to meet someone real. White Plains, especially, has always had a great mix of people.
If you are thinking about coming out for the first time, do it. Most people come on their own, and within ten minutes they are talking and laughing like old friends. It really is a low-pressure vibe.
If you need help finding the right age group or event, just send me a message.
Hope to see you at one of our Westchester events,
Jay
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