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View Upcoming New Jersey Friendly Events
It is not just Speed Dating in New Jersey anymore. Our New Jersey singles events often take place in NYC near major transportation hubs, making it easy for NJ singles to attend. Over 65 married couples have met through our events.
Find New Jersey Singles Events
Use the search box below to filter for New Jersey (NJ) singles events only, or look for events that are convenient to NJ transit like Penn Station and Port Authority.
About New Jersey Singles Events
If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right New Jersey event. Thanks to your suggestions, our events now include more than just traditional speed dating. Many are activity based events using a fun rotation format so you meet everyone attending without awkward starts or stops to conversations.
These NJ speed dating and singles events give you a comfortable and structured way to connect with new people. If you have questions, call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.
Our History in New Jersey
We held our first New Jersey speed dating event on Valentine’s Day 2003 and have since expanded across NJ, NYC, and CT. Over 65 couples have married through the events, and many more continue to meet and build relationships.
About the New Jersey Dating Scene
New Jersey has a diverse and very active dating community. Speed dating is a fast, efficient way to meet many potential matches in one evening. Mini dates usually last 5 to 10 minutes, which is enough time to spark chemistry and quickly see who you might want to get to know better.
The wider metro singles scene includes our dating on Long Island events, right across the bridge in Nassau and Suffolk.
Events vary across NJ and nearby NYC, with themed nights, age specific groups, and activity based mixers. These give you relaxed and enjoyable settings to meet people with similar interests.
Why Attend NJ Speed Dating
Even though the format is quick and structured, the connections can be very real. Many people find relationships, while others make great new friends. It is a fun, low pressure way to expand your social circle and meet new people in a comfortable environment.
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jul
24
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30-45 |
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| Men: | 30-45 |
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Manhattan
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JSC Jewish Tu B’Av White Party
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Thu
Jul
30
2026
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JSC Jewish Tu B’Av White Party
Men 30-45,
Women 30-45
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-42 |
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| Men: | 25-42 |
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Manhattan
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Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
7
2026
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Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating
Men 25-42,
Women 25-42
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Aug
8
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Aug
8
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Aug
13
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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| Women: | 49-66 |
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| Men: | 58-72 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
14
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72,
Women 49-66
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-41 |
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| Men: | 25-41 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Aug
18
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-41,
Women 25-41
Online
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
21
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
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Thu
Aug
27
2026
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50s |
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| Men: | 50s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
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Thu
Aug
27
2026
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Jewish Singles Summer Mingle
Men 50s,
Women 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Tue
Sep
1
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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| Men: | 38-55 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Sep
17
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Aug
4
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Aug
18
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT
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Sat
Aug
15
2026
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Speed Dating CT
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Connecticut
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| Women: | 50-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Wed
Aug
19
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jul
25
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Nassau
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
Jul
30
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
1
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sun
Aug
2
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Aug
15
2026
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
15
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
22
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Aug
23
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Aug
23
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Aug
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Aug
29
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Nassau
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