New Jersey Speed Dating & Singles Events

View Upcoming New Jersey Friendly Events

It is not just Speed Dating in New Jersey anymore. Our New Jersey singles events often take place in NYC near major transportation hubs, making it easy for NJ singles to attend. Over 65 married couples have met through our events.

Find New Jersey Singles Events

Use the search box below to filter for New Jersey (NJ) singles events only, or look for events that are convenient to NJ transit like Penn Station and Port Authority.

About New Jersey Singles Events

If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right New Jersey event. Thanks to your suggestions, our events now include more than just traditional speed dating. Many are activity based events using a fun rotation format so you meet everyone attending without awkward starts or stops to conversations.

These NJ speed dating and singles events give you a comfortable and structured way to connect with new people. If you have questions, call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.

Our History in New Jersey

We held our first New Jersey speed dating event on Valentine’s Day 2003 and have since expanded across NJ, NYC, and CT. Over 65 couples have married through the events, and many more continue to meet and build relationships.

About the New Jersey Dating Scene

New Jersey has a diverse and very active dating community. Speed dating is a fast, efficient way to meet many potential matches in one evening. Mini dates usually last 5 to 10 minutes, which is enough time to spark chemistry and quickly see who you might want to get to know better.

Events vary across NJ and nearby NYC, with themed nights, age specific groups, and activity based mixers. These give you relaxed and enjoyable settings to meet people with similar interests.

Why Attend NJ Speed Dating

Even though the format is quick and structured, the connections can be very real. Many people find relationships, while others make great new friends. It is a fun, low pressure way to expand your social circle and meet new people in a comfortable environment.

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Date		Ages		Location		Title
Upcoming Events
Sat Apr 11		Women:   30s, 40s 50, Men:   30s, 40s, 50s		Manhattan		Spring/Summer Kickoff Party
Sat Apr 11 2026 Spring/Summer Kickoff Party Men 30s, 40s, 50s, Women 30s, 40s 50, Manhattan
Thu Apr 16		Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Thu Apr 16 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Manhattan
Fri Apr 17		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Queens		Bayside Queens Single Mingle
Fri Apr 17 2026 Bayside Queens Single Mingle Men - All, Women - All Queens
Wed Apr 22		Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45		Manhattan		Jewish (JSC) Spring Happy Hour
Wed Apr 22 2026 Jewish (JSC) Spring Happy Hour Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan
Fri Apr 24		Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri Apr 24 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan
Fri Apr 24		Women:   45-58 Men:   35-45		Manhattan		Younger Men/Mature Women Speed Dating
Fri Apr 24 2026 Younger Men/Mature Women Speed Dating Men 35-45, Women 45-58 Manhattan
Fri Apr 24		Women:   21+ Men:   21+		Manhattan		Rescue Me Singles Party
Fri Apr 24 2026 Rescue Me Singles Party Men 21+, Women 21+ Manhattan
Fri May 1		Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri May 1 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan
Fri May 1		Women:   Jewish Men:   Jewish		Manhattan		Jewish Erin Davis Cinco De Mayo Shabbat
Fri May 1 2026 Jewish Erin Davis Cinco De Mayo Shabbat Men Jewish, Women Jewish Manhattan
Sat May 2		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		Speed Dating NYC
Sat May 2 2026 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Sat May 2		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Sat May 2 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Sun May 17		Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45		Manhattan		Jewish (JSC) Spring Picnic
Sun May 17 2026 Jewish (JSC) Spring Picnic Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan
Fri May 22		Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri May 22 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan
Sat May 30		Women:   25-41 Men:   25-41		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Sat May 30 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-41, Women 25-41 Manhattan
Tue Apr 7		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Apr 7 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Apr 14		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40		Online		Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Tue Apr 14 2026 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Apr 21		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Apr 21 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online
Thu Apr 9		Women:   40-54 Men:   43-57		Connecticut		Speed Dating CT
Thu Apr 9 2026 Speed Dating CT Men 43-57, Women 40-54 Connecticut
Thu Apr 16		Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69		Other		Speed Dating Westchester
Thu Apr 16 2026 Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Other
Sat Apr 25		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Connecticut		Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Sat Apr 25 2026 Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Connecticut
Fri Apr 10		Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Fri Apr 10 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau
Sat Apr 11		Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Apr 11 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau
Sat Apr 18		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Suffolk		LI Speed Dating
Sat Apr 18 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Suffolk
Sun Apr 19		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Sun Apr 19 2026 Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social Men - All, Women - All Suffolk
Sun Apr 19		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Pickleball Observe
Sun Apr 19 2026 Pickleball Observe Men - All, Women - All Suffolk
Sat Apr 25		Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78		Nassau		LI Speed Dating
Sat Apr 25 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau
Sun Apr 26		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Sun Apr 26 2026 Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk
Sun May 3		Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61		Suffolk		Long Island Speed Dating
Sun May 3 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Suffolk
Sat May 9		Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43		Nassau		Speed Dating Long Island
Sat May 9 2026 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau
Sat May 16		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Nassau		LI Speed Dating
Sat May 16 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau
Sun May 17		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Nassau		Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Sun May 17 2026 Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Men - All, Women - All Nassau
Sun May 17		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Nassau		Pickleball hangout Observe
Sun May 17 2026 Pickleball hangout Observe Men - All, Women - All Nassau
Fri May 22		Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78		Nassau		LI Speed Dating
Fri May 22 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau
Sat May 23		Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat May 23 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau
Thu May 28		Women:   Late 30s, 40s, 50s Men:   Late 30s, 40s, 50s		Nassau		Elevated Singles Mixer
Thu May 28 2026 Elevated Singles Mixer Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s, Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s Nassau
Fri May 29		Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Fri May 29 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Nassau
Sun Jul 12		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Sun Jul 12 2026 Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk