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View Upcoming New Jersey Friendly Events
It is not just Speed Dating in New Jersey anymore. Our New Jersey singles events often take place in NYC near major transportation hubs, making it easy for NJ singles to attend. Over 65 married couples have met through our events.
Find New Jersey Singles Events
Use the search box below to filter for New Jersey (NJ) singles events only, or look for events that are convenient to NJ transit like Penn Station and Port Authority.
About New Jersey Singles Events
If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right New Jersey event. Thanks to your suggestions, our events now include more than just traditional speed dating. Many are activity based events using a fun rotation format so you meet everyone attending without awkward starts or stops to conversations.
These NJ speed dating and singles events give you a comfortable and structured way to connect with new people. If you have questions, call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.
Our History in New Jersey
We held our first New Jersey speed dating event on Valentine’s Day 2003 and have since expanded across NJ, NYC, and CT. Over 65 couples have married through the events, and many more continue to meet and build relationships.
About the New Jersey Dating Scene
New Jersey has a diverse and very active dating community. Speed dating is a fast, efficient way to meet many potential matches in one evening. Mini dates usually last 5 to 10 minutes, which is enough time to spark chemistry and quickly see who you might want to get to know better.
Events vary across NJ and nearby NYC, with themed nights, age specific groups, and activity based mixers. These give you relaxed and enjoyable settings to meet people with similar interests.
Why Attend NJ Speed Dating
Even though the format is quick and structured, the connections can be very real. Many people find relationships, while others make great new friends. It is a fun, low pressure way to expand your social circle and meet new people in a comfortable environment.
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| Women: | 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Manhattan
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NYC Glow Party
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Sat
Feb
21
2026
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NYC Glow Party
Men 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women 30s, 40s, 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
6
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-42 |
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| Men: | 25-42 |
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Manhattan
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Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
6
2026
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Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating
Men 25-42,
Women 25-42
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Mar
7
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Mar
7
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-31 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Bachelor Alert
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Fri
Mar
20
2026
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Jewish Bachelor Alert
Men N/A,
Women 25-31
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
20
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Nassau
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
Mar
26
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Apr
4
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Apr
16
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 35-45 |
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Manhattan
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Younger Men/Mature Women Speed Dating
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Fri
Apr
24
2026
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Younger Men/Mature Women Speed Dating
Men 35-45,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Mar
3
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Mar
10
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Mar
24
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Feb
28
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
Mar
14
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
Mar
28
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Feb
21
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Feb
22
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Feb
22
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Feb
27
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Suffolk
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Feb
28
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Suffolk
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
7
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Mar
13
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
14
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
21
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
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Sun
Mar
22
2026
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball hangout Observe
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Sun
Mar
22
2026
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Pickleball hangout Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Mar
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 25-33 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-
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Wed
Apr
1
2026
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Bachelor Alert-
Men N/A,
Women 25-33
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
26
2026
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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