New York City Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in New York City anymore!

Our New York City singles events take place at Bryant Park Lounge in Manhattan and at other New York City Speed dating venues.  Our New York City dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New York City SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

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If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right New York City singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating New York City anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These New York City Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933.  

We held our first New York City speed dating event for New York City singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NYC and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong! 
We also host speed dating on Long Island for singles who prefer the suburbs to the city.


Article-  Hey there, fellow New Yorkers! Are you tired of the endless swiping and the lackluster dates that seem to go nowhere? Well, fear not! Speed dating in the heart of the concrete jungle is here to save the day (and your love life)!  Picture this: you find yourself in a trendy New York City bar, surrounded by an eclectic mix of singles, all hoping to make a genuine connection. The energy in the room is electric, buzzing with excitement and anticipation. This is speed dating in the Big Apple, and it's unlike anything you've ever experienced before.  The concept is simple yet exhilarating. You have a series of mini-dates, typically lasting about 5-10 minutes each. You sit across from someone, engage in a quick conversation, and then move on to the next potential match. It's a whirlwind of introductions, where first impressions are everything.  

Now, I won't lie to you. Speed dating can be a bit nerve-wracking at first. But trust me, once you settle into the rhythm of the event, it becomes an exciting adventure. You'll meet people from all walks of life, each with their own unique stories and personalities. It's like a social experiment in fast-forward.  The beauty of speed dating in NYC is that it's a melting pot of cultures, backgrounds, and interests. You could find yourself sitting across from a finance professional, an artist, or a writer. 

The possibilities are endless. It's a chance to broaden your horizons and step outside your usual dating bubble.  One of the best parts about speed dating is the efficiency it offers. In just a few hours, you can potentially meet a dozen or more eligible singles. Think about all the time you'll save compared to endless hours spent swiping through dating apps. Plus, there's no need to worry about the awkwardness of a prolonged date that's just not clicking. With speed dating, you can quickly assess chemistry and compatibility, and if it's not a match, you can gracefully move on to the next prospect.  But let's not forget the fun factor. Speed dating events in NYC are anything but boring. You'll often find them held in trendy venues with a lively atmosphere. 

The event organizers put a lot of thought into creating a comfortable and engaging environment. There may be icebreaker games or conversation prompts to help break the ice and keep the energy flowing. The goal is to foster genuine connections and create an enjoyable experience for all.  Now, I'm sure you're wondering, does speed dating really work? The answer is a resounding yes! Many people have found love and meaningful relationships through speed dating events in New York City. Sometimes, all it takes is a few minutes to make a lasting impression and spark a connection that can lead to something beautiful.  Even if you don't find your soulmate at a speed dating event, there are still plenty of benefits. You'll expand your social circle, make new friends, and perhaps even discover new interests or hobbies. And who knows? That person you didn't initially click with could introduce you to someone else who becomes an important part of your life.  So, fellow New Yorkers, it's time to take a break from swiping and dive into the exhilarating world of speed dating in NYC. 

Embrace the excitement, the diversity, and the endless possibilities. Step out of your comfort zone, have fun, and let the city work its magic. Who knows? You might just find yourself on a memorable date with someone who makes your heart skip a beat.