New York City Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in New York City anymore!

Our New York City singles events take place at Bryant Park Lounge in Manhattan and at other New York City Speed dating venues.  Our New York City dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New York City SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Fri Feb 6 Women:   48-64 Men:   56-70 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Feb 6 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 56-70, Women 48-64 Manhattan Fri Feb 6 Women:   35-49 Men:   35-49 Manhattan Afrodesiac Speed Dating Fri Feb 6 2026 Afrodesiac Speed Dating Men 35-49, Women 35-49 Manhattan Sat Feb 7 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Feb 7 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Tue Feb 10 Women:   45-55 Men:   45-55 Manhattan Gen X Speed Dating Tue Feb 10 2026 Gen X Speed Dating Men 45-55, Women 45-55 Manhattan Fri Feb 13 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Feb 13 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Sat Feb 14 Women:   25-45 Men:   25-45 Manhattan Jewish Valentines Spotlight Party Sat Feb 14 2026 Jewish Valentines Spotlight Party Men 25-45, Women 25-45 Manhattan Sat Feb 14 Women:   25-45 Men:   25-45 Bronx Bronx Speed Dating Sat Feb 14 2026 Bronx Speed Dating Men 25-45, Women 25-45 Bronx Fri Feb 20 Women:   25-31 Men:   N/A Manhattan Jewish Bachelor Alert Fri Feb 20 2026 Jewish Bachelor Alert Men N/A, Women 25-31 Manhattan Fri Mar 6 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Mar 6 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Fri Mar 6 Women:   25-42 Men:   25-42 Manhattan Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating Fri Mar 6 2026 Teacher/Nurse Speed Dating Men 25-42, Women 25-42 Manhattan Sat Mar 7 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Mar 7 2026 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Mar 7 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Mar 7 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri Mar 20 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Mar 20 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Thu Mar 26 Women:   Late 30s, 40s, 50s Men:   Late 30s, 40s, 50s Nassau Elevated Singles Mixer Thu Mar 26 2026 Elevated Singles Mixer Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s, Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s Nassau Tue Feb 10 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Tue Feb 10 2026 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Feb 17 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Speed Dating Tue Feb 17 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Tue Mar 3 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Speed Dating Tue Mar 3 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Mar 10 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Tue Mar 10 2026 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Mar 24 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Speed Dating Tue Mar 24 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Sat Feb 7 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Feb 7 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Nassau Fri Feb 13 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating- Men ages 53-65, Women 50-63 Fri Feb 13 2026 Long Island Speed Dating- Men ages 53-65, Women 50-63 Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Suffolk Sat Feb 14 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Feb 14 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Sat Feb 14 Women:    - 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If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right New York City singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating New York City anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These New York City Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first New York City speed dating event for New York City singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NYC and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong! 

Article-  Hey there, fellow New Yorkers! Are you tired of the endless swiping and the lackluster dates that seem to go nowhere? Well, fear not! Speed dating in the heart of the concrete jungle is here to save the day (and your love life)!  Picture this: you find yourself in a trendy New York City bar, surrounded by an eclectic mix of singles, all hoping to make a genuine connection. The energy in the room is electric, buzzing with excitement and anticipation. This is speed dating in the Big Apple, and it's unlike anything you've ever experienced before.  The concept is simple yet exhilarating. You have a series of mini-dates, typically lasting about 5-10 minutes each. You sit across from someone, engage in a quick conversation, and then move on to the next potential match. It's a whirlwind of introductions, where first impressions are everything.  

Now, I won't lie to you. Speed dating can be a bit nerve-wracking at first. But trust me, once you settle into the rhythm of the event, it becomes an exciting adventure. You'll meet people from all walks of life, each with their own unique stories and personalities. It's like a social experiment in fast-forward.  The beauty of speed dating in NYC is that it's a melting pot of cultures, backgrounds, and interests. You could find yourself sitting across from a finance professional, an artist, or a writer. 

The possibilities are endless. It's a chance to broaden your horizons and step outside your usual dating bubble.  One of the best parts about speed dating is the efficiency it offers. In just a few hours, you can potentially meet a dozen or more eligible singles. Think about all the time you'll save compared to endless hours spent swiping through dating apps. Plus, there's no need to worry about the awkwardness of a prolonged date that's just not clicking. With speed dating, you can quickly assess chemistry and compatibility, and if it's not a match, you can gracefully move on to the next prospect.  But let's not forget the fun factor. Speed dating events in NYC are anything but boring. You'll often find them held in trendy venues with a lively atmosphere. 

The event organizers put a lot of thought into creating a comfortable and engaging environment. There may be icebreaker games or conversation prompts to help break the ice and keep the energy flowing. The goal is to foster genuine connections and create an enjoyable experience for all.  Now, I'm sure you're wondering, does speed dating really work? The answer is a resounding yes! Many people have found love and meaningful relationships through speed dating events in New York City. Sometimes, all it takes is a few minutes to make a lasting impression and spark a connection that can lead to something beautiful.  Even if you don't find your soulmate at a speed dating event, there are still plenty of benefits. You'll expand your social circle, make new friends, and perhaps even discover new interests or hobbies. And who knows? That person you didn't initially click with could introduce you to someone else who becomes an important part of your life.  So, fellow New Yorkers, it's time to take a break from swiping and dive into the exhilarating world of speed dating in NYC. 

Embrace the excitement, the diversity, and the endless possibilities. Step out of your comfort zone, have fun, and let the city work its magic. Who knows? You might just find yourself on a memorable date with someone who makes your heart skip a beat.