NJ Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in NJ anymore!

Our NJ singles events take place in NYC, very conveniently located to major transportation hubs.  Our NJ dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New Jersey (NJ) SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

FIND AN EVENT:   FIND AN EVENT: All Events Singles Social Jewish All Locations Long Island New York City Connecticut Tri-State Date Ages Location Title Upcoming Events Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan Halloween Singles Soirée Fri Oct 31 2025 Halloween Singles Soirée Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan Boo Bash NYC Fri Oct 31 2025 Boo Bash NYC Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Sat Nov 1 Women:    - All Men:    - All Manhattan NYC Social Mingle Sat Nov 1 2025 NYC Social Mingle Men - All, Women - All Manhattan Tue Nov 4 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Fall Singles Mixer Tue Nov 4 2025 Jewish (JSC) Fall Singles Mixer Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Fri Nov 7 Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Nov 7 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan Fri Nov 7 Women:   25-40 Men:   25-40 Manhattan Teacher Speed Dating Fri Nov 7 2025 Teacher Speed Dating Men 25-40, Women 25-40 Manhattan Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Nov 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Sat Nov 8 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Fri Nov 14 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Shabbat Social Fri Nov 14 2025 Jewish (JSC) Shabbat Social Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Fri Nov 21 Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Nov 21 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan Fri Nov 21 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending Fri Nov 21 2025 Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending Men - All, Women - All Nassau Fri Dec 5 Women:   48-63 Men:   54-69 Manhattan NYC Speed Dating Fri Dec 5 2025 NYC Speed Dating Men 54-69, Women 48-63 Manhattan Thu Dec 11 Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39 Manhattan JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Thu Dec 11 2025 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan Tue Nov 4 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Online Online Speed Dating Tue Nov 4 2025 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online Wed Nov 5 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40 Online Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Wed Nov 5 2025 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online Tue Nov 18 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Online Online Speed Dating Tue Nov 18 2025 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online Fri Oct 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Halloween Dance Party Fri Oct 31 2025 Halloween Dance Party Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 1 Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43 Nassau Speed Dating Long Island Sat Nov 1 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau Sun Nov 2 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Dinner & a movie- Back to The Future! Sun Nov 2 2025 Dinner & a movie- Back to The Future! Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 8 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating Sat Nov 8 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Suffolk Fri Nov 14 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Fri Nov 14 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Nassau Sat Nov 15 Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Nov 15 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau Sun Nov 16 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping Sun Nov 16 2025 Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Nov 22 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Nassau LI Speed Dating Sat Nov 22 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau Sun Nov 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Sun Nov 23 2025 Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sun Nov 23 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Pickleball hangout Observe Sun Nov 23 2025 Pickleball hangout Observe Men - All, Women - All Nassau Wed Nov 26 Women:   20s & 30s Men:   20s & 30s Manhattan Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Wed Nov 26 2025 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Men 20s & 30s, Women 20s & 30s Manhattan Wed Nov 26 Women:    - All Men:   all Manhattan Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages Wed Nov 26 2025 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle--all ages Men all , Women - All Manhattan Fri Nov 28 Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78 Nassau LI Speed Dating Fri Nov 28 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau Sat Nov 29 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Nassau Speed Dating Long Island Sat Nov 29 2025 Speed Dating Long Island Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Nassau Sat Nov 29 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Long Island Comedy Sat Nov 29 2025 Long Island Comedy Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Mon Dec 1 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Photo Services- Look Better Mon Dec 1 2025 Photo Services- Look Better Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Dec 6 Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65 Nassau Long Island Speed Dating Sat Dec 6 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau Sat Dec 13 Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61 Suffolk Long Island Speed Dating Sat Dec 13 2025 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Suffolk Sat Dec 27 Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57 Nassau LI Speed Dating Sat Dec 27 2025 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Nassau Wed Dec 31 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island Singles New years Eve Wed Dec 31 2025 Long Island Singles New years Eve Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sun Apr 26 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Sun Apr 26 2026 Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sun Jul 12 Women:    - All Men:    - All Suffolk Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Sun Jul 12 2026 Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk Sat Nov 1 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Connecticut Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Sat Nov 1 2025 Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Connecticut Tue Nov 4 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Fall Singles Mixer Tue Nov 4 2025 Jewish (JSC) Fall Singles Mixer Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Sat Nov 8 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Manhattan Speed Dating NYC Sat Nov 8 2025 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan Thu Nov 13 Women:   40-54 Men:   43-57 Other Speed Dating Westchester Thu Nov 13 2025 Speed Dating Westchester Men 43-57, Women 40-54 Other Fri Nov 14 Women:   30-45 Men:   30-45 Manhattan Jewish (JSC) Shabbat Social Fri Nov 14 2025 Jewish (JSC) Shabbat Social Men 30-45, Women 30-45 Manhattan Thu Nov 20 Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69 Connecticut Speed Dating CT Thu Nov 20 2025 Speed Dating CT Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Connecticut Fri Nov 21 Women:    - All Men:    - All Nassau Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending Fri Nov 21 2025 Long Island -Fun & Games/Speed Friending Men - All, Women - All Nassau Sat Dec 13 Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s Connecticut Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Sat Dec 13 2025 Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Connecticut

If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NJ singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating NJ anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These NJ Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first NJ speed dating event for New Jersey singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NJ and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong!