NJ Speed Dating

It's not just Speed Dating in NJ anymore!

Our NJ singles events take place in NYC, very conveniently located to major transportation hubs.  Our NJ dating events have resulted in over 65 married couples so far. 

Use the box below to search for New Jersey (NJ) SINGLES EVENTS  Only.

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If you are new to singles events, check out our guidelines for choosing the right NJ singles event.   Thanks to your many suggestions and feedback received over the past 4 years, it is not just speed dating NJ anymore.  Many of the events modify the speed dating format to an activity.   

These NJ Speed Dating and singles events are structured so that you get to enjoy the activity, but are also ensured to meet everyone who attends by incorporating a rotation factor.  This eliminates any awkward entrance to exists to conversations.    Have questions or Concerns? Call Jay at 718-757-6933 or 516-908-9638.  

We held our first NJ speed dating event for New Jersey singles on Valentines Day 2003 and have since expanded to NJ and Connecticut  Over 65 married couples and we are still going strong!