NJ Speed Dating

It is not just Speed Dating NJ anymore. Our NJ singles events often take place in convenient NYC venues near transportation hubs, making it easy for New Jersey singles to get in and out. Over 65 married couples have met through these events.

If you live in New Jersey and you are tired of the dating apps, these NJ and NYC based events give you a simple way to meet people face to face. You show up, sit down, and I guide you through the rotations so you meet everyone.

At a Glance

Where: NYC venues near NJ transit + select NJ locations
Format: 8â€“15 mini dates
Transit: Easy access from PATH, NJ Transit, buses
Hosts: Friendly guidance all night
Matches: Sent in 12â€“24 hours

Quick Answers

Dress code: Smart casual works well
Age groups: 20sâ€“50s, depending on event
Food/drinks: Available for purchase
Arrival: Check in 10â€“15 minutes early

Voice Quick Answers

Where are NJ speed dating events held?

Most events use Manhattan venues near transit so New Jersey singles can get in and out easily.

How long do NJ events last?

Plan for 90 minutes to 2 hours depending on group size.

How many people will I meet?

Usually 8â€“15, depending on turnout.

How soon do matches come?

Within 12â€“24 hours (including one-way matches).

Do I need to live in NJ?

No â€” anyone in the NY/NJ area can attend.

Date

Ages

Location

Title

Upcoming Events

Sat
May
16

Women:	21+

Men:	21+

Manhattan

Love Logic Party

Sat
May
16
2026

Love Logic Party
Men 21+, Women 21+
Manhattan

Sun
May
17

Women:	30-45

Men:	30-45

Manhattan

Jewish (JSC) Spring Picnic

Sun
May
17
2026

Jewish (JSC) Spring Picnic
Men 30-45, Women 30-45
Manhattan

Fri
May
22

Women:	40-56

Men:	43-57

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
May
22
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57, Women 40-56
Manhattan

Fri
May
22

Women:	28-45

Men:	28-45

Manhattan

Blue Collar Speed Dating

Fri
May
22
2026

Blue Collar Speed Dating
Men 28-45, Women 28-45
Manhattan

Sat
May
30

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
May
30
2026

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Sat
May
30

Women:	20s & 30s

Men:	20s & 30s

Manhattan

Audiobook lovers speed dating

Sat
May
30
2026

Audiobook lovers speed dating
Men 20s & 30s, Women 20s & 30s
Manhattan

Sat
May
30

Women:	25-41

Men:	25-41

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
May
30
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-41, Women 25-41
Manhattan

Fri
Jun
5

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Queens

Bayside Queens Single Mingle

Fri
Jun
5
2026

Bayside Queens Single Mingle
Men - All, Women - All
Queens

Thu
Jun
11

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer

Thu
Jun
11
2026

Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Fri
Jun
12

Women:	49-66

Men:	58-72

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jun
12
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72, Women 49-66
Manhattan

Fri
Jun
26

Women:	40-56

Men:	43-57

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jun
26
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57, Women 40-56
Manhattan

Fri
Jun
26

Women:	25+

Men:	25+

Manhattan

Gay Speed Dating NYC

Fri
Jun
26
2026

Gay Speed Dating NYC
Men 25+, Women 25+
Manhattan

Sat
Jul
11

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
Jul
11
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Tue
May
19

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
May
19
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Online

Tue
Jun
2

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40

Online

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating

Tue
Jun
2
2026

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Jun
9

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Jun
9
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Jun
23

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Jun
23
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Online

Sat
May
23

Women:	50-65

Men:	56-69

Other

Speed Dating Westchester

Sat
May
23
2026

Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69, Women 50-65
Other

Sat
May
30

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Connecticut

Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s

Sat
May
30
2026

Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut

Thu
Jun
11

Women:	40-54

Men:	43-57

Other

Speed Dating Westchester

Thu
Jun
11
2026

Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57, Women 40-54
Other

Wed
Jun
17

Women:	50-65

Men:	56-69

Other

Speed Dating Westchester

Wed
Jun
17
2026

Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69, Women 50-65
Other

Sat
May
16

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
May
16
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Nassau

Sun
May
17

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons

Sun
May
17
2026

Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Sun
May
17

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Pickleball hangout Observe

Sun
May
17
2026

Pickleball hangout Observe
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Fri
May
22

Women:	56-70

Men:	58-78

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Fri
May
22
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78, Women 56-70
Nassau

Sat
May
23

Women:	35-49

Men:	38-52

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
May
23
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52, Women 35-49
Nassau

Thu
May
28

Women:	Late 30s, 40s, 50s

Men:	Late 30s, 40s, 50s

Nassau

Elevated Singles Mixer

Thu
May
28
2026

Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s, Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau

Fri
May
29

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Fri
May
29
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Nassau

Sat
Jun
6

Women:	50-63

Men:	53-65

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jun
6
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65, Women 50-63
Nassau

Sat
Jun
6

Women:	27-43

Men:	27-43

Nassau

Speed Dating Long Island

Sat
Jun
6
2026

Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43, Women 27-43
Nassau

Thu
Jun
11

Women:	50s

Men:	50s

Manhattan

Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer

Thu
Jun
11
2026

Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
Men 50s, Women 50s
Manhattan

Sat
Jun
13

Women:	37-55

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Jun
13
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-55
Nassau

Sat
Jun
20

Women:	35-49

Men:	38-52

Suffolk

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jun
20
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52, Women 35-49
Suffolk

Sat
Jun
27

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jun
27
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Nassau

Sun
Jun
28

Women:	56-70

Men:	58-78

Suffolk

LI Speed Dating

Sun
Jun
28
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78, Women 56-70
Suffolk

Sun
Jul
12

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)

Sun
Jul
12
2026

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Frequently Asked Questions

Do NJ speed dating events actually work?

Yes. Between NJ and NYC events, over 65 couples have married through WeekendDating.

Is there a drink minimum?

Some venues require one or two items â€” check the event details above.

What if I get nervous?

Totally normal. Within a couple rounds most people loosen up and have fun.

From Jay

A lot of New Jersey people tell me they are tired of apps and â€œtyping their life away.â€ These events give you a real shot at meeting someone face to face without pressure.

Come try a night. You might walk out with a match, a friend, or even just a fun story. Either way, it beats another night staring at a screen.

If you ever need help picking the right event, reach out anytime.

See you soon,
Jay

NJ Speed Dating

At a Glance

Quick Answers

Voice Quick Answers

Where are NJ speed dating events held?

How long do NJ events last?

How many people will I meet?

How soon do matches come?

Do I need to live in NJ?

People Also Ask About NJ Speed Dating

How much do NJ speed dating events cost?

Do NJ events feel different than NYC?

What do I wear?

Can I come alone?

Do I need to be the exact age group?

Frequently Asked Questions

Do NJ speed dating events actually work?

Is there a drink minimum?

What if I get nervous?

From Jay