NJ Speed Dating

It is not just Speed Dating NJ anymore. Our NJ singles events often take place in convenient NYC venues near transportation hubs, making it easy for New Jersey singles to get in and out. Over 65 married couples have met through these events.

If you live in New Jersey and you are tired of the dating apps, these NJ and NYC based events give you a simple way to meet people face to face. You show up, sit down, and I guide you through the rotations so you meet everyone.

At a Glance

Where: NYC venues near NJ transit + select NJ locations
Format: 8â€“15 mini dates
Transit: Easy access from PATH, NJ Transit, buses
Hosts: Friendly guidance all night
Matches: Sent in 12â€“24 hours

Quick Answers

Dress code: Smart casual works well
Age groups: 20sâ€“50s, depending on event
Food/drinks: Available for purchase
Arrival: Check in 10â€“15 minutes early

Voice Quick Answers

Where are NJ speed dating events held?

Most events use Manhattan venues near transit so New Jersey singles can get in and out easily.

How long do NJ events last?

Plan for 90 minutes to 2 hours depending on group size.

How many people will I meet?

Usually 8â€“15, depending on turnout.

How soon do matches come?

Within 12â€“24 hours (including one-way matches).

Do I need to live in NJ?

No â€” anyone in the NY/NJ area can attend.

Date

Ages

Location

Title

Upcoming Events

Sun
Jul
5

Women:	21 and over

Men:	21 and over

Manhattan

Fleet Week Bash

Sun
Jul
5
2026

Fleet Week Bash
Men 21 and over, Women 21 and over
Manhattan

Fri
Jul
10

Women:	45-59

Men:	48-65

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jul
10
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65, Women 45-59
Manhattan

Sat
Jul
11

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Jul
11
2026

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Sat
Jul
11

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
Jul
11
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Thu
Jul
16

Women:	21+

Men:	21+

Manhattan

Rescue Me Singles Party

Thu
Jul
16
2026

Rescue Me Singles Party
Men 21+, Women 21+
Manhattan

Fri
Jul
24

Women:	40-56

Men:	43-57

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jul
24
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57, Women 40-56
Manhattan

Sat
Aug
1

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

NYC

Jewish Matchmaking Database

Sat
Aug
1
2026

Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All, Women - All
NYC

Sat
Aug
8

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Aug
8
2026

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Sat
Aug
8

Women:	30-45

Men:	30-45

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
Aug
8
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30-45, Women 30-45
Manhattan

Thu
Aug
13

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Thu
Aug
13
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Manhattan

Fri
Aug
14

Women:	49-66

Men:	58-72

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Aug
14
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72, Women 49-66
Manhattan

Tue
Aug
18

Women:	25-41

Men:	25-41

Online

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating

Tue
Aug
18
2026

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-41, Women 25-41
Online

Fri
Aug
21

Women:	40-56

Men:	43-57

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Aug
21
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57, Women 40-56
Manhattan

Thu
Sep
17

Women:	35-54

Men:	38-55

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Thu
Sep
17
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 38-55, Women 35-54
Manhattan

Tue
Jul
7

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Jul
7
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Jul
14

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40

Online

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating

Tue
Jul
14
2026

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Jul
21

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Jul
21
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Online

Thu
Jul
9

Women:	40-54

Men:	43-57

Other

Speed Dating Westchester

Thu
Jul
9
2026

Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57, Women 40-54
Other

Thu
Jul
16

Women:	50-65

Men:	56-69

Connecticut

Speed Dating CT

Thu
Jul
16
2026

Speed Dating CT
Men 56-69, Women 50-65
Connecticut

Sat
Jul
25

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Other

Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s

Sat
Jul
25
2026

Speed Dating Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Other

Sun
Jul
5

Women:	50-63

Men:	53-65

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sun
Jul
5
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65, Women 50-63
Nassau

Sat
Jul
11

Women:	30-45

Men:	30-45

Nassau

Speed Dating Long Island

Sat
Jul
11
2026

Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30-45, Women 30-45
Nassau

Sun
Jul
12

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)

Sun
Jul
12
2026

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Fri
Jul
17

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Long Island Comedy

Fri
Jul
17
2026

Long Island Comedy
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Sat
Jul
18

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Jul
18
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Nassau

Sat
Jul
25

Women:	56-70

Men:	58-78

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Jul
25
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78, Women 56-70
Nassau

Sat
Jul
25

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jul
25
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Nassau

Thu
Jul
30

Women:	Late 30s, 40s, 50s

Men:	Late 30s, 40s, 50s

Nassau

Elevated Singles Mixer

Thu
Jul
30
2026

Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s, Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau

Sat
Aug
1

Women:	50-63

Men:	53-65

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Aug
1
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65, Women 50-63
Nassau

Sun
Aug
2

Women:	30-45

Men:	30-45

Nassau

Speed Dating Long Island

Sun
Aug
2
2026

Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30-45, Women 30-45
Nassau

Sat
Aug
15

Women:	35-49

Men:	38-52

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Aug
15
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52, Women 35-49
Nassau

Sat
Aug
22

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Aug
22
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Nassau

Sun
Aug
23

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social

Sun
Aug
23
2026

Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Sun
Aug
23

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Pickleball Observe

Sun
Aug
23
2026

Pickleball Observe
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Fri
Aug
28

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Fri
Aug
28
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Nassau

Frequently Asked Questions

Do NJ speed dating events actually work?

Yes. Between NJ and NYC events, over 65 couples have married through WeekendDating.

Is there a drink minimum?

Some venues require one or two items â€” check the event details above.

What if I get nervous?

Totally normal. Within a couple rounds most people loosen up and have fun.

From Jay

A lot of New Jersey people tell me they are tired of apps and â€œtyping their life away.â€ These events give you a real shot at meeting someone face to face without pressure.

Come try a night. You might walk out with a match, a friend, or even just a fun story. Either way, it beats another night staring at a screen.

If you ever need help picking the right event, reach out anytime.

See you soon,
Jay

NJ Speed Dating

At a Glance

Quick Answers

Voice Quick Answers

Where are NJ speed dating events held?

How long do NJ events last?

How many people will I meet?

How soon do matches come?

Do I need to live in NJ?

People Also Ask About NJ Speed Dating

How much do NJ speed dating events cost?

Do NJ events feel different than NYC?

What do I wear?

Can I come alone?

Do I need to be the exact age group?

Frequently Asked Questions

Do NJ speed dating events actually work?

Is there a drink minimum?

What if I get nervous?

From Jay