NJ Speed Dating

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It is not just Speed Dating NJ anymore. Our NJ singles events often take place in convenient NYC venues near transportation hubs, making it easy for New Jersey singles to get in and out. Over 65 married couples have met through these events.

If you live in New Jersey and you are tired of the dating apps, these NJ and NYC based events give you a simple way to meet people face to face. You show up, sit down, and I guide you through the rotations so you meet everyone.

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Date		Ages		Location		Title
Upcoming Events
Wed Dec 31		Women:   25+ Men:   25+		Manhattan		NYCs New years eve Singles party
Wed Dec 31 2025 NYCs New years eve Singles party Men 25+, Women 25+ Manhattan
Fri Jan 9		Women:   45-59 Men:   48-65		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri Jan 9 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 48-65, Women 45-59 Manhattan
Sat Jan 10		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		Speed Dating NYC
Sat Jan 10 2026 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Sat Jan 10		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Sat Jan 10 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Tue Jan 13		Women:   25-45 Men:   25-45		Manhattan		Jewish (JSC) Winter Happy Hour/Pizza
Tue Jan 13 2026 Jewish (JSC) Winter Happy Hour/Pizza Men 25-45, Women 25-45 Manhattan
Fri Jan 16		Women:   40-56 Men:   43-57		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri Jan 16 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 43-57, Women 40-56 Manhattan
Thu Jan 22		Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Thu Jan 22 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Manhattan
Sun Feb 1		Women:    - All Men:    - All		NYC		Matchmaking Date Database-Comp
Sun Feb 1 2026 Matchmaking Date Database-Comp Men - All, Women - All NYC
Fri Feb 6		Women:   48-64 Men:   56-70		Manhattan		NYC Speed Dating
Fri Feb 6 2026 NYC Speed Dating Men 56-70, Women 48-64 Manhattan
Sat Feb 7		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		Speed Dating NYC
Sat Feb 7 2026 Speed Dating NYC Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Sat Feb 7		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Online		Online Speed Dating
Sat Feb 7 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online
Sat Feb 7		Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39		Manhattan		JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Sat Feb 7 2026 JEWISH- NYC Speed dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Manhattan
Tue Jan 6		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Jan 6 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Jan 13		Women:   25-39 Men:   25-39		Online		Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Tue Jan 13 2026 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 25-39, Women 25-39 Online
Tue Jan 20		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Jan 20 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online
Tue Feb 3		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Feb 3 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Feb 10		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40		Online		Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Tue Feb 10 2026 Jewish Virtual Speed Dating Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s Online
Tue Feb 17		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Online		Online Speed Dating
Tue Feb 17 2026 Online Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Online
Thu Jan 15		Women:   40-54 Men:   43-57		Connecticut		Speed Dating CT
Thu Jan 15 2026 Speed Dating CT Men 43-57, Women 40-54 Connecticut
Thu Jan 22		Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69		Connecticut		Speed Dating CT
Thu Jan 22 2026 Speed Dating CT Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Connecticut
Sat Jan 31		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Other		Speed Dating Westchester
Sat Jan 31 2026 Speed Dating Westchester Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Other
Thu Feb 19		Women:   50-65 Men:   56-69		Other		Speed Dating Westchester
Thu Feb 19 2026 Speed Dating Westchester Men 56-69, Women 50-65 Other
Wed Dec 31		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Nassau		Long Island Singles New years Eve
Wed Dec 31 2025 Long Island Singles New years Eve Men - All, Women - All Nassau
Sat Jan 3		Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43		Nassau		Speed Dating Long Island
Sat Jan 3 2026 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau
Wed Jan 7		Women:   35-45 Men:   N/A		Nassau		Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Wed Jan 7 2026 Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens Men N/A, Women 35-45 Nassau
Sat Jan 10		Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Jan 10 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau
Wed Jan 14		Women:   25-33 Men:   N/A		Nassau		Bachelor Alert-
Wed Jan 14 2026 Bachelor Alert- Men N/A, Women 25-33 Nassau
Sat Jan 17		Women:   45-58 Men:   48-61		Suffolk		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Jan 17 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 48-61, Women 45-58 Suffolk
Sat Jan 17		Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Jan 17 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau
Sat Jan 24		Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78		Nassau		LI Speed Dating
Sat Jan 24 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau
Sat Jan 24		Women:   37-54 Men:   42-57		Suffolk		LI Speed Dating
Sat Jan 24 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 42-57, Women 37-54 Suffolk
Sun Jan 25		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Nassau		Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Sun Jan 25 2026 Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons Men - All, Women - All Nassau
Sun Jan 25		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Nassau		Pickleball hangout Observe
Sun Jan 25 2026 Pickleball hangout Observe Men - All, Women - All Nassau
Sat Jan 31		Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43		Nassau		Speed Dating Long Island
Sat Jan 31 2026 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Nassau
Sat Jan 31		Women:   30s & 40s Men:   30s & 40s		Manhattan		Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
Sat Jan 31 2026 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s Manhattan
Sat Jan 31		Women:   50s Men:   50s		Manhattan		Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
Sat Jan 31 2026 Jewish Singles NYC Mingle Men 50s, Women 50s Manhattan
Sat Feb 7		Women:   50-63 Men:   53-65		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Feb 7 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 53-65, Women 50-63 Nassau
Sat Feb 14		Women:   35-49 Men:   38-52		Nassau		Long Island Speed Dating
Sat Feb 14 2026 Long Island Speed Dating Men 38-52, Women 35-49 Nassau
Fri Feb 27		Women:   56-70 Men:   58-78		Nassau		LI Speed Dating
Fri Feb 27 2026 LI Speed Dating Men 58-78, Women 56-70 Nassau
Sat Feb 28		Women:   27-43 Men:   27-43		Suffolk		Speed Dating Long Island
Sat Feb 28 2026 Speed Dating Long Island Men 27-43, Women 27-43 Suffolk
Sun Apr 26		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Sun Apr 26 2026 Prince of Egypt (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk
Sun Jul 12		Women:    - All Men:    - All		Suffolk		Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Sun Jul 12 2026 Beautiful the Musical (Babylon) Men - All, Women - All Suffolk

Frequently Asked Questions

Do NJ speed dating events actually work?

Yes. Between NJ and NYC events, over 65 couples have married through WeekendDating.

Is there a drink minimum?

Some venues require one or two items — check the event details above.

What if I get nervous?

Totally normal. Within a couple rounds most people loosen up and have fun.

From Jay

A lot of New Jersey people tell me they are tired of apps and “typing their life away.” These events give you a real shot at meeting someone face to face without pressure.

Come try a night. You might walk out with a match, a friend, or even just a fun story. Either way, it beats another night staring at a screen.

If you ever need help picking the right event, reach out anytime.

See you soon,
Jay