NYC Speed Dating (Manhattan and surrounding areas)

WeekendDating runs relaxed, well organized speed dating NYC events. In about 90 minutes you will meet 8 to 15 people in your age group, chat for 4 to 5 minutes each, and submit your choices at the end. It is simple, low pressure, and we email your matches within 12 to 24 hours. 88 married couples have started here - you could be next!

Most events are at Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge, and other easy to reach NYC spots - an easy walk from Penn Station, Grand Central, and major subway lines (1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, PATH).

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At-a-Glance

Independent research backs the shift toward curated, in person connections: Pew Research and PNAS Stanford (HCMST data portal).

Where: Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge plus select NYC venues
Format: 8 to 15 mini dates, about 4 to 5 minutes each
Who: Age grouped events; like minded singles
Host: Friendly host guides the night
Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours
Virtual: Zoom events also available

Quick Answers

What to wear? Smart casual - neat jeans, button down, nice top or dress.
How many people? Typically 8 to 15 per event.
Do I meet everyone? Yes - structured rotations keep it easy.
Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours (one way matches included).
Proof of age? Checked at check in to keep groups accurate.

Voice Quick Answers

Where can I find speed dating in NYC this weekend?

Right here. Check the schedule for upcoming NYC events near Herald Square and Penn Station, updated weekly.

Is it near me - in Manhattan and easy to get to?

Yes. Most NYC events are a short walk from Penn Station, Grand Central, and major subway lines (1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, PATH).

How long does a speed dating event last?

Plan for about 90 minutes to 2 hours including check in, mini dates, and mingling.

What should I wear?

Smart casual works great: neat jeans, a button down, or a nice top or dress.

How many people will I meet?

Typically 8 to 15 in your age group, with 4 to 5 minute conversations so you meet everyone.

Do you verify age at the door?

Yes. We check ID so each age group stays accurate.

When do I get my matches?

We email matches within 12 to 24 hours. One way matches are included.

Key Questions About NYC Speed Dating

What is speed dating?

Speed dating is an organized social event where singles meet through a series of short conversations. In one night, you meet many potential matches face to face in minutes each.

8 to 15 quick mini dates
4 to 5 minutes per conversation
Matches emailed within 24 hours

How does a NYC speed dating event work?

Arrive 15 to 30 minutes early and check in.
Meet 8 to 15 singles in your age group through mini dates.
Mark your choices on a scorecard.
Matches are emailed to you within 12 to 24 hours.

Why try speed dating in NYC?

Meet many singles in one night.
Avoid the endless swiping of apps.
Age groups verified at the door for accuracy.

Sources and Helpful NYC Links

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Location

Title

Upcoming Events

Fri
Dec
5

Women:	48-63

Men:	54-69

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Dec
5
2025

NYC Speed Dating
Men 54-69, Women 48-63
Manhattan

Sat
Dec
6

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Dec
6
2025

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Sat
Dec
6

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
Dec
6
2025

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Tue
Dec
9

Women:	N/A

Men:	25+

Manhattan

Gay Speed Dating

Tue
Dec
9
2025

Gay Speed Dating
Men 25+, Women N/A
Manhattan

Thu
Dec
11

Women:	25-39

Men:	25-39

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Thu
Dec
11
2025

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39, Women 25-39
Manhattan

Wed
Dec
31

Women:	25+

Men:	25+

Manhattan

NYCs New years eve Singles party

Wed
Dec
31
2025

NYCs New years eve Singles party
Men 25+, Women 25+
Manhattan

Fri
Jan
9

Women:	45-59

Men:	48-65

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jan
9
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65, Women 45-59
Manhattan

Sat
Jan
10

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Jan
10
2026

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Sat
Jan
10

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating

Sat
Jan
10
2026

JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Fri
Jan
16

Women:	40-56

Men:	43-57

Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating

Fri
Jan
16
2026

NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57, Women 40-56
Manhattan

Tue
Dec
2

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Dec
2
2025

Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Wed
Dec
3

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40

Online

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating

Wed
Dec
3
2025

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Dec
9

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Dec
9
2025

Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Online

Tue
Jan
6

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Online

Online Speed Dating

Tue
Jan
6
2026

Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Online

Tue
Jan
13

Women:	25-39

Men:	25-39

Online

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating

Tue
Jan
13
2026

Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-39, Women 25-39
Online

Mon
Dec
1

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Photo Services- Look Better

Mon
Dec
1
2025

Photo Services- Look Better
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Mon
Dec
1

Women:	35-45

Men:	N/A

Nassau

Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens

Mon
Dec
1
2025

Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Men N/A, Women 35-45
Nassau

Sat
Dec
6

Women:	50-63

Men:	53-65

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Dec
6
2025

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65, Women 50-63
Nassau

Sat
Dec
13

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Suffolk

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Dec
13
2025

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Suffolk

Sun
Dec
14

Women:	25-33

Men:	N/A

Nassau

Bachelor Alert-

Sun
Dec
14
2025

Bachelor Alert-
Men N/A, Women 25-33
Nassau

Sun
Dec
14

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping

Sun
Dec
14
2025

Secret Singles Supermarket Shopping
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Sat
Dec
27

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Dec
27
2025

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Nassau

Sat
Dec
27

Women:	56-70

Men:	58-78

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Dec
27
2025

LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78, Women 56-70
Nassau

Wed
Dec
31

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Nassau

Long Island Singles New years Eve

Wed
Dec
31
2025

Long Island Singles New years Eve
Men - All, Women - All
Nassau

Sat
Jan
3

Women:	27-43

Men:	27-43

Nassau

Speed Dating Long Island

Sat
Jan
3
2026

Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43, Women 27-43
Nassau

Sat
Jan
10

Women:	50-63

Men:	53-65

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jan
10
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65, Women 50-63
Nassau

Sat
Jan
17

Women:	45-58

Men:	48-61

Nassau

Long Island Speed Dating

Sat
Jan
17
2026

Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61, Women 45-58
Nassau

Fri
Jan
23

Women:	56-70

Men:	58-78

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Fri
Jan
23
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78, Women 56-70
Nassau

Sat
Jan
24

Women:	37-54

Men:	42-57

Nassau

LI Speed Dating

Sat
Jan
24
2026

LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57, Women 37-54
Nassau

Sun
Apr
26

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Prince of Egypt (Babylon)

Sun
Apr
26
2026

Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Sun
Jul
12

Women:	- All

Men:	- All

Suffolk

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)

Sun
Jul
12
2026

Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All, Women - All
Suffolk

Sat
Dec
6

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Dec
6
2025

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

Thu
Dec
11

Women:	40-54

Men:	43-57

Other

Speed Dating Westchester-

Thu
Dec
11
2025

Speed Dating Westchester-
Men 43-57, Women 40-54
Other

Sat
Dec
13

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Connecticut

Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s

Sat
Dec
13
2025

Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut

Sun
Dec
14

Women:	25-33

Men:	N/A

Nassau

Bachelor Alert-

Sun
Dec
14
2025

Bachelor Alert-
Men N/A, Women 25-33
Nassau

Sat
Dec
27

Women:	50-65

Men:	56-69

Other

Speed Dating Westchester

Sat
Dec
27
2025

Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69, Women 50-65
Other

Sat
Jan
10

Women:	30s & 40s

Men:	30s & 40s

Manhattan

Speed Dating NYC

Sat
Jan
10
2026

Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s, Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan

NYC Speed Dating (Manhattan and surrounding areas)

At-a-Glance

Quick Answers

Voice Quick Answers

Where can I find speed dating in NYC this weekend?

Is it near me - in Manhattan and easy to get to?

How long does a speed dating event last?

What should I wear?

How many people will I meet?

Do you verify age at the door?

When do I get my matches?

Key Questions About NYC Speed Dating

What is speed dating?

How does a NYC speed dating event work?

Why try speed dating in NYC?

Sources and Helpful NYC Links

Speed Dating Events NYC