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WeekendDating runs relaxed, well organized speed dating NYC events. In about 90 minutes you will meet 8 to 15 people in your age group, chat for 4 to 5 minutes each, and submit your choices at the end. It is simple, low pressure, and we email your matches within 12 to 24 hours. 88 married couples have started here - you could be next!
Most events are at Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge, and other easy to reach NYC spots - an easy walk from Penn Station, Grand Central, and major subway lines (1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, PATH).
Reserve Your NYC Speed Dating Spot - Limited Seating!
At-a-Glance
Independent research backs the shift toward curated, in person connections:
Pew Research and
PNAS Stanford
(HCMST data portal).
- Where: Nosh, Bryant Park Lounge plus select NYC venues
- Format: 8 to 15 mini dates, about 4 to 5 minutes each
- Who: Age grouped events; like minded singles
- Host: Friendly host guides the night
- Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours
- Virtual: Zoom events also available
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Quick Answers
- What to wear? Smart casual - neat jeans, button down, nice top or dress.
- How many people? Typically 8 to 15 per event.
- Do I meet everyone? Yes - structured rotations keep it easy.
- Matches: Emailed within 12 to 24 hours (one way matches included).
- Proof of age? Checked at check in to keep groups accurate.
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Voice Quick Answers
Where can I find speed dating in NYC this weekend?
Right here. Check the schedule for upcoming NYC events near Herald Square and Penn Station, updated weekly.
Is it near me - in Manhattan and easy to get to?
Yes. Most NYC events are a short walk from Penn Station, Grand Central, and major subway lines (1/2/3, A/C/E, N/Q/R/W, PATH).
How long does a speed dating event last?
Plan for about 90 minutes to 2 hours including check in, mini dates, and mingling.
What should I wear?
Smart casual works great: neat jeans, a button down, or a nice top or dress.
How many people will I meet?
Typically 8 to 15 in your age group, with 4 to 5 minute conversations so you meet everyone.
Do you verify age at the door?
Yes. We check ID so each age group stays accurate.
When do I get my matches?
We email matches within 12 to 24 hours. One way matches are included.
Key Questions About NYC Speed Dating
What is speed dating?
Speed dating is an organized social event where singles meet through a series of short conversations. In one night, you meet many potential matches face to face in minutes each.
- 8 to 15 quick mini dates
- 4 to 5 minutes per conversation
- Matches emailed within 24 hours
How does a NYC speed dating event work?
- Arrive 15 to 30 minutes early and check in.
- Meet 8 to 15 singles in your age group through mini dates.
- Mark your choices on a scorecard.
- Matches are emailed to you within 12 to 24 hours.
Why try speed dating in NYC?
- Meet many singles in one night.
- Avoid the endless swiping of apps.
- Age groups verified at the door for accuracy.
Sources and Helpful NYC Links
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
May
22
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 28-45 |
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| Men: | 28-45 |
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Manhattan
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Blue Collar Speed Dating
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Fri
May
22
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Blue Collar Speed Dating
Men 28-45,
Women 28-45
Manhattan
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Manhattan
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Summer Kick off Party
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May
23
2026
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Summer Kick off Party
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
May
30
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 20s & 30s |
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| Men: | 20s & 30s |
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Manhattan
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Audiobook lovers speed dating
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Sat
May
30
2026
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Audiobook lovers speed dating
Men 20s & 30s,
Women 20s & 30s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-41 |
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| Men: | 25-41 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
May
30
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-41,
Women 25-41
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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Queens
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
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Fri
Jun
5
2026
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
Men - All,
Women - All
Queens
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
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Thu
Jun
11
2026
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Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 49-66 |
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| Men: | 58-72 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jun
12
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72,
Women 49-66
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jun
26
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25+ |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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Gay Speed Dating NYC
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Fri
Jun
26
2026
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Gay Speed Dating NYC
Men 25+,
Women 25+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Jul
11
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Jun
2
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jun
9
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jun
23
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
May
22
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
May
23
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Nassau
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
May
28
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
May
29
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
6
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Jun
6
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 50s |
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| Men: | 50s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
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Thu
Jun
11
2026
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Jewish Singles NY Secret Admirer
Men 50s,
Women 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 37-55 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
13
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-55
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
20
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Suffolk
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jun
27
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sun
Jun
28
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
May
23
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
May
30
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
May
30
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Jun
11
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Wed
Jun
17
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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Speed Dating Events NYC
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