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Putnam County speed dating gives Hudson Valley singles a closer option than always driving into Westchester or the city. Events are usually an easy trip from Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, and nearby towns, and are set up so you meet a bunch of people in a short amount of time without feeling rushed or pressured.
Each night is hosted, structured, and built for real in person conversations. You check in, the host explains how it all works, and then you rotate through a series of mini dates with others in your age group. After the event you log your picks and receive your matches by email.
At a Glance
- Area: Putnam County and nearby Hudson Valley towns
- Sample towns: Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, Cold Spring
- Format: 8 to 15 mini dates per night
- Length: About 90 minutes to 2 hours
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Good To Know
- Age groups: Different nights for different age ranges
- Vibe: Casual, low pressure, friendly hosts
- Proof of age: ID may be required at in person venues
- Matches: Sent within about 24 hours
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Quick Answers For Putnam County Singles
Where are Putnam County speed dating events held?
Events are usually an easy drive from Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, and other Putnam County and Hudson Valley towns.
Do I have to live in Putnam County to attend?
No. People also come from Westchester, Dutchess, and even the city. If Putnam is convenient for you, you are welcome.
How many people will I meet in one night?
On a typical evening you will meet somewhere between 8 and 15 singles in your age group.
What is the dress code for Putnam County speed dating?
Smart casual works great. You do not need a suit, just look neat and like you put in some effort.
Are there virtual events for Hudson Valley singles?
WeekendDating also runs online and Zoom based events, which are a nice option if the weather is bad or you live farther away.
Upcoming Putnam County and Hudson Valley Events
Use the search and listings below to see upcoming Hudson Valley, Westchester, and online events that are an easy trip from Putnam County.
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT
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Thu
Jan
15
2026
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Speed Dating CT
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Connecticut
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT
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Thu
Jan
22
2026
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Speed Dating CT
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Sat
Jan
31
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Other
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| Women: | 50-65 |
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| Men: | 56-69 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Feb
19
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-69,
Women 50-65
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jan
6
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Jan
13
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Jan
20
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Feb
3
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Feb
10
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Feb
17
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 25+ |
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| Men: | 25+ |
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Manhattan
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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NYCs New years eve Singles party
Men 25+,
Women 25+
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jan
9
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-45 |
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| Men: | 25-45 |
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Manhattan
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Jewish (JSC) Winter Happy Hour/Pizza
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Tue
Jan
13
2026
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Jewish (JSC) Winter Happy Hour/Pizza
Men 25-45,
Women 25-45
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Jan
16
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Jan
22
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Manhattan
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NYC
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Matchmaking Date Database-Comp
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Sun
Feb
1
2026
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Matchmaking Date Database-Comp
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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| Women: | 48-64 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Feb
6
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 48-64
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Feb
7
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Sat
Feb
7
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 25-39 |
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| Men: | 25-39 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Feb
7
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 25-39,
Women 25-39
Manhattan
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| Women: | - All |
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Nassau
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
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Wed
Dec
31
2025
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Long Island Singles New years Eve
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Jan
3
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-45 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
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Wed
Jan
7
2026
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Bachelor Alert-LI/Queens
Men N/A,
Women 35-45
Nassau
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
10
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 25-33 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Nassau
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Bachelor Alert-
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Wed
Jan
14
2026
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Bachelor Alert-
Men N/A,
Women 25-33
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Suffolk
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Suffolk
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
24
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Jan
24
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
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Sun
Jan
25
2026
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Pickleball Singles Social/Lessons
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball hangout Observe
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Sun
Jan
25
2026
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Pickleball hangout Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Nassau
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Jan
31
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Nassau
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
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Sat
Jan
31
2026
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50s |
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| Men: | 50s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
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Sat
Jan
31
2026
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Jewish Singles NYC Mingle
Men 50s,
Women 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Feb
7
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Feb
14
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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Nassau
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Vday Single MINGLE - Jays 22 Yr
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Sat
Feb
14
2026
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Vday Single MINGLE - Jays 22 Yr
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Feb
27
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Suffolk
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Feb
28
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Suffolk
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Suffolk
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
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Sun
Apr
26
2026
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Prince of Egypt (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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Suffolk
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
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Sun
Jul
12
2026
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Beautiful the Musical (Babylon)
Men - All,
Women - All
Suffolk
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People Also Ask About Putnam County Speed Dating
How far is Putnam County speed dating from Westchester?
Many Putnam events are only a short drive from northern Westchester, so it is easy to attend from either county.
Can I come alone to a Putnam County event?
Yes. Most guests arrive solo. The host explains how everything works and helps break the ice.
What age ranges do you offer in Putnam County?
Age groups vary by night, for example 30s and 40s or 40s and 50s. Check the event list above for exact ranges.
Do I get my matches the same night?
You log your picks after the event. Matches are usually sent by email within about 12 to 24 hours.
Is there pressure to exchange phone numbers on the spot?
No. You simply mark who you would like to hear from. If it is mutual, contact info is shared in your matches email.
Why Hudson Valley Singles Like These Events
WeekendDating has been running speed dating and singles events since 2003. Over the years the events expanded from Manhattan and Long Island into Westchester, Connecticut, online events, and now options that are closer for Putnam County singles.
Many guests are tired of dating apps, ghosting, and profiles that are nothing like real life. In person speed dating lets you see someone face to face, hear their voice, and decide in a few minutes if there is any spark or not.
About Putnam County Speed Dating
Whether you are in Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, or another nearby town, these events are designed to be a simple, affordable way to meet people who are also serious about meeting someone in real life. No membership fees, no long term contracts, just pick an event that fits your schedule and age range.
If you are not sure which night is the best fit for you, or you have questions about Putnam County, Westchester, or other Hudson Valley options, call or text Jay at (718) 757-6933.
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