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Putnam County speed dating gives Hudson Valley singles a closer option than always driving into Westchester or the city. Events are usually an easy trip from Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, and nearby towns, and are set up so you meet a bunch of people in a short amount of time without feeling rushed or pressured.
Each night is hosted, structured, and built for real in person conversations. You check in, the host explains how it all works, and then you rotate through a series of mini dates with others in your age group. After the event you log your picks and receive your matches by email.
At a Glance
- Area: Putnam County and nearby Hudson Valley towns
- Sample towns: Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, Cold Spring
- Format: 8 to 15 mini dates per night
- Length: About 90 minutes to 2 hours
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Good To Know
- Age groups: Different nights for different age ranges
- Vibe: Casual, low pressure, friendly hosts
- Proof of age: ID may be required at in person venues
- Matches: Sent within about 24 hours
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Quick Answers For Putnam County Singles
Where are Putnam County speed dating events held?
Events are usually an easy drive from Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, and other Putnam County and Hudson Valley towns.
Do I have to live in Putnam County to attend?
No. People also come from Westchester, Dutchess, and even the city. If Putnam is convenient for you, you are welcome.
How many people will I meet in one night?
On a typical evening you will meet somewhere between 8 and 15 singles in your age group.
What is the dress code for Putnam County speed dating?
Smart casual works great. You do not need a suit, just look neat and like you put in some effort.
Are there virtual events for Hudson Valley singles?
WeekendDating also runs online and Zoom based events, which are a nice option if the weather is bad or you live farther away.
Upcoming Putnam County and Hudson Valley Events
Use the search and listings below to see upcoming Hudson Valley, Westchester, and online events that are an easy trip from Putnam County.
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Sep
10
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 43-57,
Women 40-54
Other
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| Women: | 50-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Other
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Speed Dating Westchester
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Thu
Sep
17
2026
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Speed Dating Westchester
Men 56-70,
Women 50-66
Other
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Connecticut
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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Speed Dating CT Ages 30s & 40s
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Connecticut
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Sep
15
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Sep
22
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
6
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
13
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 30s & 40,
Women 30s & 40s
Online
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| Women: | 37-54 |
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| Men: | 42-57 |
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Online
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Online Speed Dating
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Tue
Oct
20
2026
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Online Speed Dating
Men 42-57,
Women 37-54
Online
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| Women: | 27-43 |
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| Men: | 27-43 |
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Online
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
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Tue
Nov
10
2026
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Jewish Virtual Speed Dating
Men 27-43,
Women 27-43
Online
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-65 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 48-65,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 35-54 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Thu
Sep
17
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 38-55,
Women 35-54
Manhattan
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NYC
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
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Sun
Sep
20
2026
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Jewish Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
NYC
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Manhattan
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Matchmaking Database
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Sep
20
2026
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Matchmaking Database
Men - All,
Women - All
Manhattan
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
25
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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Queens
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
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Fri
Sep
25
2026
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Bayside Queens Single Mingle
Men - All,
Women - All
Queens
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Mingle
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Thu
Oct
8
2026
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Jewish Singles Mingle
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50s |
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Manhattan
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Jewish Singles Mingle
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Thu
Oct
8
2026
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Jewish Singles Mingle
Men 50s,
Women 50s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 49-66 |
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| Men: | 58-72 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
9
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 58-72,
Women 49-66
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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Speed Dating NYC
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Sat
Oct
10
2026
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Speed Dating NYC
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
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Sat
Oct
10
2026
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JEWISH- NYC Speed dating
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Manhattan
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| Women: | 25-36 |
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| Men: | N/A |
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Manhattan
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
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Thu
Oct
15
2026
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Bachelor Alert-NYC
Men N/A,
Women 25-36
Manhattan
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| Women: | N/A |
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NYC
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
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Thu
Oct
15
2026
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Jewish Bachelorette Alert
Men N/A,
Women N/A
NYC
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| Women: | 40-56 |
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| Men: | 43-57 |
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Manhattan
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NYC Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
23
2026
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NYC Speed Dating
Men 43-57,
Women 40-56
Manhattan
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| Women: | 45-59 |
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| Men: | 48-64 |
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Manhattan
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating-M 48-64, W 45-59
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Thu
Nov
19
2026
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JEWISH NYC Speed dating-M 48-64, W 45-59
Men 48-64,
Women 45-59
Manhattan
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
5
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Nassau
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Nassau
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Long Island Comedy
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Sat
Sep
12
2026
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Long Island Comedy
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Fri
Sep
18
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
19
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 52-66 |
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| Men: | 56-70 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
19
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 56-70,
Women 52-66
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles Dine With Purpose
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Thu
Sep
24
2026
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Singles Dine With Purpose
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Sep
26
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
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Sun
Sep
27
2026
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Pickleball Singles Clinic/Social
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Pickleball Observe
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Sun
Sep
27
2026
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Pickleball Observe
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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| Men: | Late 30s, 40s, 50s |
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Suffolk
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Elevated Singles Mixer
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Thu
Oct
1
2026
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Elevated Singles Mixer
Men Late 30s, 40s, 50s,
Women Late 30s, 40s, 50s
Suffolk
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| Women: | 50-63 |
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| Men: | 53-65 |
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Suffolk
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
2
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 53-65,
Women 50-63
Suffolk
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| Women: | 30s & 40s |
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| Men: | 30s & 40s |
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Suffolk
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Speed Dating Long Island
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Sat
Oct
3
2026
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Speed Dating Long Island
Men 30s & 40s,
Women 30s & 40s
Suffolk
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| Women: | - All |
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| Men: | - All |
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Nassau
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
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Wed
Oct
14
2026
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Singles w/ Aging Parents- Seminar
Men - All,
Women - All
Nassau
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| Women: | 35-49 |
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| Men: | 38-52 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
17
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 38-52,
Women 35-49
Nassau
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| Women: | 45-58 |
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| Men: | 48-61 |
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Nassau
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Long Island Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
24
2026
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Long Island Speed Dating
Men 48-61,
Women 45-58
Nassau
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| Women: | 40-54 |
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| Men: | 43-55 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Fri
Oct
30
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 43-55,
Women 40-54
Nassau
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| Women: | 56-70 |
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| Men: | 58-78 |
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Nassau
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LI Speed Dating
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Sat
Oct
31
2026
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LI Speed Dating
Men 58-78,
Women 56-70
Nassau
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People Also Ask About Putnam County Speed Dating
How far is Putnam County speed dating from Westchester?
Many Putnam events are only a short drive from northern Westchester, so it is easy to attend from either county.
Can I come alone to a Putnam County event?
Yes. Most guests arrive solo. The host explains how everything works and helps break the ice.
What age ranges do you offer in Putnam County?
Age groups vary by night, for example 30s and 40s or 40s and 50s. Check the event list above for exact ranges.
Do I get my matches the same night?
You log your picks after the event. Matches are usually sent by email within about 12 to 24 hours.
Is there pressure to exchange phone numbers on the spot?
No. You simply mark who you would like to hear from. If it is mutual, contact info is shared in your matches email.
Why Hudson Valley Singles Like These Events
WeekendDating has been running speed dating and singles events since 2003. Over the years the events expanded from Manhattan and Long Island into Westchester, Connecticut, online events, and now options that are closer for Putnam County singles.
Many guests are tired of dating apps, ghosting, and profiles that are nothing like real life. In person speed dating lets you see someone face to face, hear their voice, and decide in a few minutes if there is any spark or not.
About Putnam County Speed Dating
Whether you are in Brewster, Carmel, Mahopac, or another nearby town, these events are designed to be a simple, affordable way to meet people who are also serious about meeting someone in real life. No membership fees, no long term contracts, just pick an event that fits your schedule and age range.
If you are not sure which night is the best fit for you, or you have questions about Putnam County, Westchester, or other Hudson Valley options, call or text Jay at (718) 757-6933.
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